sometimes i accidentally accept the bare minimum trying to be mindful of what others have going on and that is a flaw that i need to let go of expeditiously!
i saw a girl on tiktok who said “it doesn’t matter how loyal you are to someone. you can’t change someone’s heart and bad habits unless they want to themselves” and i felt that to the core.
i saw a girl on tiktok who said “accountability is so important to me. nobody’s perfect, but don’t try to flip the script and make my reaction the issue when your actions lit the match” felt this to the core.
men are naturally selfish and that’s why nothing holds them back, not love, not marriage, not kids, not family! nothing! that’s selfishness is what I want us to learn my dear ladies, please be selfish and stay selfish.
my last relationship taught me that the more chances you give someone, the less they value you. they're not afraid to lose you because they know no matter what, you won't walk away. never let someone get too comfortable with disrespecting you. love yourself first.
my therapist told me “no matter how big your heart is, some people will literally resent you for doing for them what they can't do for themselves” that really hit me.
That prayer “God, remove anything in my life that is not for me” of “God if this person is not for me, then remove them”
Be working like IMMEDIATELY. Wake up the next day and everything with that person shifts