Some women don’t climax through fingering, penetration, or oral at all and that’s completely valid. Pleasure is so personal, and it looks different for everyone. It comes down to vulnerability I feel. It is important that she’s feeling safe enough to let go, whether you want to take charge or let her lead. Some prefer to dominate and be in control.
It’s about conversation, patience, and foreplay, essential parts of intimacy. Those soft kisses, the right touch, and that sense of comfort build into something electric, you find yourself wanting more, the moans, their fingers walking and mesmerising your body, or the dirty little talks, melting into the moment until you can’t take it anymore and you become breathless at some point…. Na article I go read am abeg o! 🧎♀️
The joy of connecting, exploring, and bringing each other pleasure is something truly beautiful and that’s the exciting part about intimacy.
And let’s be clear for both heterosexual and homosexual relationships , fingers are absolutely fantastic and should never be downplayed. For many, they’re far more precise and effective than penetration alone, they know exactly where to press, how to move, and how to make your whole body shake in pleasure.
It’s amazing when someone takes the time to explore your body, learning what feels good even in ways you might not have discovered yourself.