If I’m going to get married and you want me to have your children, I need to be ridiculously spoiled, extremely loved, and put on a pedestal because a ring is not enough.
princess treatment doesnt mean he buys me whatever i want. it means he LISTENS. he PROTECTS. he LEADS. he is HUMBLE. he COMMUNICATES. he doesnt let me go to sleep while im still upset. he doesnt make me feel like im hard to love. he is my PEACE and chaos and my HOME.
men are the real GOLD DIGGERS.
they expect your BODY.
they expect you to play MAID.
to COOK, to CLEAN, to RAISE their kids.
they expect you to PAMPER fragile egos and carry all the EMOTIONAL LABOR... while holding down a JOB and still SPLITTING THE BILLS
Men don't understand... being a "provider" isn't all about money. It's about providing the EMOTIONAL SECURITY that allows a woman to rest in her FEMININE ENERGY. Money is the icing, not the cake