That’s why a new bitch wanting to befriend me can’t get nothing out of me. It’s verrrrry rare I’ll be open to that now. Because bitches really just be wanting to get into your world to see how and why you so blessed.
Insulting the intelligence of straight women and stereotyping bisexual women while also trying to position yourself over the thousands of men who do the same because you think your reason is better. Niggas think they’re slick but at the end of the day everyone’s just a misogynist
This is a why I don't have sex with men who don't seem to have stable or loving relationships in other areas of their lives. Dudes who move like islands, don't have friendships for long, always starting new is someone who won't respect you because he's not doing that to others.
Whenever a friend needs to move, it’s me & other women lifting furniture. When I go out to eat w/my bestie sometimes she covers the whole tab. So why would we now not have that expectation of the men in our lives, no shade! And what does any of that have to do with being queer 😭
You need 4 bank accounts if you want to build wealth without constantly wondering where your money went:
1. Income Account
This is where all your money comes in. salary, business income, side hustles, investment returns, and every other source of income. Don't spend directly from this account. Let it be the control centre where every naira is assigned a purpose.
2. Essentials Account
This covers your monthly necessities: rent, groceries, transportation, utilities, subscriptions, and other unavoidable expenses. Automatically transfer a fixed percentage here every month. If it's not a necessity, it doesn't belong in this account. Be honest with yourself.
3. Investment Account
This is where your future is built. Use it for stocks, crypto, index funds, retirement savings, or saving toward a home. Pay your future self before anyone else. Money leaving this account should create more wealth, not fund lifestyle upgrades.
4. Fun Account
Life isn't just about paying bills. Set aside a fixed amount for dining out, skincare, entertainment, travel, shopping, or hobbies. When your fun money runs out, the fun pauses until next month. Keeping pleasure separate from essentials helps you enjoy your money without guilt or overspending.
The goal isn't to have more bank accounts.
The goal is to give every naira a clear assignment before it disappears.
If you don't want four separate bank accounts, you can also use dedicated sub-accounts, wallets, or budgeting "spaces" offered by many banks and finance apps. The key idea is separating the purpose of your money, not necessarily opening four different banks.
The best decision I've ever made was only sleeping with people who cared about me or enjoyed my friendship. They didn't have to love me, see a future with me, or be my partner. But they had to like me. Cared about how I'd perceive them. That made sex more fun and safe.
My point is you should feel like you want to be around people not need to… when you feel like you need people you’ll just be tolerating all sorts out of fear of loneliness, when you’re comfortable w yourself already it allows you to only accept people that align with you