@Max_J619 @instablog9ja Then if youโre poor, marry poor and if youโre rich, marry rich?
Blind should marry blind
Deaf marry deaf
Cripple marry cripple
Man marry man
Woman marry woman
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The guy in the above picture travelled home to Nigeria for fear of deportation after years of fruitless effort to obtain residence status in London UK.The approval for his residency came not long after he departed for Nigeria.
A neighbour of his picked this up for him.
Nobody .
A guy that drinks and a guy that doesn't drink were asked what influenced their position with alcohol.
1st guy: My father was a drunkard. I looked at him and knew I didn't want that for me.
2nd guy: My father drinks so I naturally took after him.
A polygamous man and a monogamous man were asked why they took that path.
Poly: My dad was polygamous. I didn't want that for me.
Mono: My dad was polygamous.
Do you understand where I am going now?
Your parents having a beautiful/toxic relationship does not guarantee you'll have one too. Being loved at home or not, will not determine the fate of your relationship. You'll have to decide for yourself what kind of relationship you want. You can use your environment as a lesson or an example. The choice is yours. You accept the love you think you deserve.
This also applies to how you raise kids. You can decide to copy your environment because you like how you were raised or disregard it because you loathe it. It is always a choice. Environment gives exposure but you are solely responsible for your choices.
When they move from Europe to Africa = Voyages of discovery.
When we move from Africa to Europe = Illegal immigrants.
A group of Africans in Europe = Refugees.
A group of Europeans in Africa = Tourists.
A group of Africans in the bush = Poachers
A group of Europeans in bush = Hunters.
Black people working in a foreign country = foreigners
White people working in a foreign country = expatriates
This world has failed Africa, or have we failed ourselves? Food for thought!!