Yes we clap for her BECAUSE ngumlungu that is embracing a culture that is not hers. She reads their son books that are not in her language. She is a teacher and she's actively choosing to learn. What's wrong with that?
I don’t think you guys understand how dangerous lento eniyiphasisayo is. Constantly demanding a reason for a woman’s “no” goes far beyond wanting someone to date your bisexual friend. You’re normalising the idea that a woman’s “no” is never enough on its own.