AVOIDANTS BE LIKE:
"I'm going to enter your life, text you daily, make you believe we're building forever, and make you feel safe enough to fall hard.
Then the moment I'm expected to communicate like an adult, own my behavior, or face conflict - I'll vanish. Because running from my problems is easier than facing them.
Then I'll tell everyone 'it just didn't work out' because I'm too afraid to speak the truth. 1/7
poor communication and emotional unavailability are some of the biggest turn offs. like how are you going to be in a relationship and make them feel crazy just because they want to talk and spend time with you. you’re supposed to make them feel loved and cherished, not unwanted
Back to normal. No updates. No late-night calls. No favorite notification to look forward to. Just silence, memories, and the slow process of learning how to live without what once felt like home.
PLEASE avoid eggshell type of relationships, can't express yourself, can't be yourself, can't be straight forward, can't be comfortable, can't talk like adults, can't be heard, can't respond with love without it actually turning into something negative...
Next August , 2027 at this exact time, you will be standing in the places you used to dream about. Living your most beautiful rich life. Send this to yourself.
we slept together, met both our families, showered skin to skin, said i love you, kissed with morning breath, doing goodnight/goodmorning kisses, cooked together, traveled together, talked about our past,present, future; our dreams, cried in each other's arms, did everything together, rides together, made business plan, promises and plans for our future. So wdym just move-on and find someone new?