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Promise me that if someone starts gossiping about me, you will pretend to hate me too just to get all the details and then come tell me everything.

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She wears experiences, not brands.

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i’m not sad, i’m just disappointed

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wala kanang mahahanap na kasing sama ng ugali ko so please keep me.

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some people have zero desire to be seen. they just want a quiet & blessed life (me)

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I will not drive myself crazy trying to love someone who knows I’m good to them. I will not lose myself in love again. I will not honor anyone who betrays my trust. I will not let anyone manipulate me into thinking I’m the reason for their hurtful actions. I will not accept being in competition with ppl just to have a higher place in someone’s life. I will not settle because I’m afraid to lose the love I’ve given. I will not damage myself to keep someone else happy. My peace and happiness are my priority & if it’s real love, they’ll do whatever it takes to protect it.

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Maybe I didn’t catch everything Rene’s mother said during the final viewing, but one line pierced my heart:

“...tungod kay pobre kita, dili sila makapangayo og pasaylo nato...”

I couldn’t hold my tears back after hearing those words. Grabe kasakit paminawon. And the saddest part is that, for many families, this is the reality they live with every day.

Sometimes, the pain isn’t just about losing someone you love. It’s also about feeling powerless, unheard, and believing that your voice carries less weight because of your circumstances.

Now, Rene has been laid to rest.

The funeral is over. The flowers will eventually fade. The crowds will go home. For many, life will slowly move on.

But for Rene’s family, the pain remains.

A chair at the table will stay empty. A voice they once heard every day has fallen silent. And a mother’s heart will continue to carry a grief that no words can fully describe.

As we honor Rene’s memory, may we not allow the search for truth and accountability to be buried with him.

May his passing not be forgotten. May those responsible be held accountable. And may justice be served not out of anger, but out of respect for a young life taken too soon.

Rest in peace, Rene.

NOW, LET JUSTICE TAKE ITS COURSE.

[gentle reminder @Andrie_0214]

7 YEARS.

Bat tinatawag to ng karamihan as “Critical Stage ng isang relasyon” Simple lang, sa stage nato, dapat di na pinapaabot ng 7 years. Pag umabot na ng 7 years up, mataas ang chance na di na kayo magkatuluyan or ang ending ng karamihan, hiwalayan talaga. May iba ding nagtagal at sila ang nagkatuluyan pero karamihan break up talaga.

Imagine, 7 years? Na try nyu na lahat. Nakita nyu na lahat. You invested time, love, money and effort. You see? Pero may kulang, KASAL. Ito ah, opinion ko lang to sa as lalaki. Pag di pa kayo pinapakasalan sa stage na yan, maybe, He is not for you. Di siya ang para sayo girls and maybe, He is looking pa for someone na mas higit pa sayo.

Girls, pag mahal ka talaga ng isang lalaki, papakasalan ka talaga nyan at hindi na yan paabotin pa ng 7-10 years. Again girls, in the end, kayo parin ang talo kasi maiiwan kayo and sa stage na yan, pag naiwan kana, sure ako nabigay mona ang lahat pati kaluluwa mo sa dyowa mo. Kaya napaka importanteng tanungin nyo palagi dyowa nyu girls, “Ano bang plano mo sakin?” “papakasalan mo ba ako” “ako ba talaga or ako mona?”

Kaya, maraming nag be-break up sa stage na yan. Sumpa siguro yan. HAHHAHA!

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Dahil sa kaka-fake news niyo tungkol sa Juvenile Justice Law, naniwala yung mga bata na hindi sila makukulong if they committed the crime. Ganyan ka delikado ang fake news.

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"DON'T FORGET YOU'RE LIVING IN AN ANSWERED PRAYER!"

There was a time when you prayed for what you have today.

A time when you asked God for strength, provision, guidance, or a new opportunity.

And now, here you are.

It may not be perfect.
It may not look exactly how you imagined.

But it is still a reminder of God's faithfulness.

"Give thanks to the Lord, for He is good; His love endures forever."
— Psalm 107:1

Sometimes we become so focused on what we still want that we forget to thank God for what He has already done.

Take a moment to look back.

Notice how far God has brought you.
Notice the prayers He has already answered.

And let your heart be filled with gratitude.

Because today, you're living in blessings you once prayed for. 🙏🏻🤍

[gentle reminder @Andrie_0214]

mag thirst trap ka lang mag post ka lang ng baddie pics mo huwag mong hayaan na mai-kumpara kang mga walang kwentang lalake na fragile ang ego at takot sa mga babaeng confident sa sarili nila

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you don't need makeup to look pretty btw.

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HOW DO WE REALLY DEFINE DECENCY IN THIS KIND OF SOCIETY?‼️‼️‼️

One realization that struck me these past few days is how society, especially some men, keeps trying to define womanhood based on how a woman dresses, presents herself, or expresses herself.

LANS' name is everywhere and on almost everyone's algorithm. I have been following and watching her content for quite some time already.

I agree that she deserves all the appreciation she gets. She's talented, genuine, informative, and inspiring. But appreciating her should never come at the expense of other women.

And what's ironic?

Some of the loudest voices preaching about "decent women" are often the same men consuming thirst traps, following sexualized content, supporting industries built around the objectification of women, and treating women as content for their own consumption.

How can you condemn women for expressing themselves while simultaneously consuming the very content you claim to despise?

How can you reduce a woman's worth to the amount of skin she shows when your standards conveniently change depending on what entertains you?

A WOMAN WEARING A SHIRT AND JEANS IS A DECENT WOMAN.

A WOMAN WEARING A GLAMOROUS DRESS IS STILL A DECENT WOMAN.

A WOMAN WHO CHOOSES TO BE CONSERVATIVE IS A DECENT WOMAN.

A WOMAN WHO CHOOSES TO EXPRESS HERSELF DIFFERENTLY IS STILL A DECENT WOMAN.

Because decency has never been about clothes.
It has never been about hemlines, crop tops, bikinis, dresses, or how much skin a woman chooses to show.

It has always been about character, values, integrity, and how a person treats others.

Most people only use "decency" as a convenient excuse to judge women while ignoring their own hypocrisy.

We can celebrate women like LANS without using them as weapons against other women.

We can uplift womanhood without dragging another woman down.

It's 2026.
Stop objectifying women.
Stop sexualizing women.
Stop acting as if women exist to fit the standards you created for them.

Because the people who keep defining what a "decent woman" looks like are often the same people who see women as objects in the first place.

WOMEN DO NOT EXIST TO SATISFY YOUR STANDARDS.
WOMANHOOD DOES NOT NEED MALE VALIDATION.

AND A WOMAN'S DIGNITY, WORTH, AND DECENCY WERE NEVER YOURS TO DEFINE.