If you buy me lunch I’m buying you lunch , you get me some for my birthday I’m getting you some, you show up for me I’m there for u ! No I don’t count favors I just treat ppl how they treat me.
Being in your 30s is realizing you can actually just... leave. The relationship. The friendship. The room. The situation. You don’t need to stay anywhere that doesn’t feel good anymore.
You can’t say you love someone and let pride stop you from apologizing, expressing yourself, or fixing things. At some point, you either choose the relationship or you choose your pride.