20 yrs - 🇻🇪 - ESP/ENG - A Hat in Time 🎩, Okage Shadow King ⚙️ and Little Witch Academia 🧙♀️ fan - She/Her
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One of the hardest things to accept is that sometimes, you will be misunderstood while the person who hurt you gets to play the victim. They will tell the story differently. They will leave out what they did. They will exaggerate what you did. And some people will believe them. Let them. You cannot force someone to see the truth when they are more comfortable believing the lie. Your job is not to chase every accusation. Your job is not to defend yourself to everyone.
saben por qué pasan estas cosas? porque se les deja, no porque sean loquitos, o porque sean esquizofrenicos, sino porque arrancan insultando a mujeres de su entorno, manoseandolas, acosandolas, va escalando, va escalando, algunos se quedan solo con acoso verbal, otros avanzan más
Realmente me pregunto cuántos hombres y mujeres (aunque pocas porque la mayoría tenemos dos dedos de frente) estarán con miedo eterno de que algún día a alguna niña le dé por contar con pruebas que intentaron ligar con ella cuando era menor.
When i was first recovering from being groomed i couldnt find any stories like mine, everything was so black and white, helpless victims with abusers who get off scot free, I feel like a lot of us have held our stories back for a long time because reality is more complex and ugly
I still believe KS. Block me if you dont.
Abusers are known to coerce and threaten victims to lie, as well as fabricate "mental illness" to make them seem crazy. KS is not safe, even if she did lie. I cannot believe you are all this blind.
indons love complaining about international people still remaining concerned about an abuse victim as if they're not also part of the reason why victims in indonesia weren't also able to get the help they need, I think they're very obsessed on enabling horrible people. 😂
For those wondering why I’m not buying the KS situation being a lie:
I’ve lived with an abusive family. I’ve been forced off the internet by them before, with them forcing me to tell my friends that everything is alright. That’s why I’m still skeptical about this being the truth.
The entire KS situation is proof that people don't care about the victim and only want to play hero.
A victim will need to have multiple proof of their abuse for you to believe them, but all an abuser need is to said "oh they're lying" for you to fold and side with the abuser.
Qué ridículas e inmaduras las personas que saben que tienen la culpa, que cuentan una versión totalmente diferente de la historia para siempre quedar como víctimas, sentirse bien consigo mismas y no aceptar que son un asco.
No queden callados ante el grooming, aunq haya pasado tiempo, les han 'seguido el rollo', hayan 'consentido' cosas q no querían consentir o no llegaron a una 'relación' romántica/sexual, siempre habrá gente q va a apoyarlos, ayudarlos y darles contención
abusers will literally manipulate you into thinking there's nothing going on when clearly there's A LOT happening. I've had my abusers cover up stuff, even if I had proof. so don't say KS' situation was "debunked", especially if there was proof. keep spreading stuff abt KS.
Important note: people with psychiatric issues are more likely to be disbelieved or victim blamed for being "Crazy", but people with psychiatric issues are more likely to be abused than the abuser.
Also victims don't have to be perfect