Can’t totally fault people who resort to dating apps or matchmaking pages to find partners.
Once you miss university.
Miss NYSC.
Miss church gatherings or Islamic gatherings.
Don’t want to date your work colleagues.
Neighbor is a no go area.
Your best bet is either through social media, family and friends matchmaking, arranged marriage or you download your partner from heaven. If you’re an introvert that means you will sleep there.
I have this particular uncle who never forgets anyone's birthday. On your birthday, he's usually the first to call and send you money.
Because he always shows up for people, we all assumed he was getting the same kind of love in return.
One year, my sister and I contributed money and bought him a wristwatch. It was about ₦25,000 then.
When we gave it to him, I watched a grown man shed tears.
He told us it was the very first birthday gift he had ever received in his life.
I still find that hard to believe because someone who shows up for people the way he does deserves that same love too.
Sometimes, the people who give the most are the ones who receive the least.
You should have things you don't do, places you don't go to, substances you don't take, words you don't say
By all means, have Principles and Standards.
The saddest thing l've learned is that you can do everything right and still lose.
Be kind and get hurt. Be honest and get betrayed. Be loyal and get abandoned.
Good people don't always get good outcomes. That's the unfairness no one prepares you for.
Dear Abuja residents you see some of the people you see during the day hanging around bridges, sitting under these bridges, begging you for money.
They look like life is dealing with them and you have pity for them.
These are the same people that R0b and att@ck you at night when your car breaks down or you are walking alone at night.
So be very careful how you move at night.
You don't have to experience it to know if I'm saying the truth.
Be safe always.
When you start cheating on your partner who truly loves you, there is now how, they will know... Their body tells them, their mind keeps drifting in that direction that something is not right somewhere.
Then all of a sudden they confront you when you least expected it and majority of the time, their intuition were 100% right.
@UNOFFICIALFACT Again, combatting insecurity in Nigeria requires a localised approach.
I have written a detailed approach that guarantees 90% success.
Hopefully one day, it gets to the hands of someone that can buy into the idea.
Again, Nigeria‘s security problem is not rocket science.
SWEET NEWS FROM ABIA STATE.
Two persons were kidnapped in Umuawa-Alaocha community in Umuahia-North local government area by Fulani bandits. A male and a female. The kidnappers called the family of the female victim, and demanded for ransom, or else they will kill her. After much negotiation, they brought the ransom to 10 million naira last. Youths from the community felt challenged since the police or the military was not going to act, and their people are just suffering in the hands of kidnappers. They mobilized themselves in their hundreds to comb the forests around umuahia-north to rescue their people
They entered the forest from different directions in groups and in large numbers. Lo and behold, they spotted the kidnappers, rounded the 6 of them up, and rescued the two victims.
They have reunited the victims with their families and also handed over the 6 kidnappers to the police.
At some point you just got to tell ppl, I love you and I'll love you forever, but I'm no longer interested in the level of life you have to offer me, and because of that I have to let you go. I'm not even asking you to change, I just need you to understand, that you can keep doing what you wanna do and how you wanna do it, you just can't do that with me. You gotta love ppl from a distance to protect your peace
If your partner always insists you must call before coming over, it might be a sign they don’t really value you like that.
It’s okay to ask sometimes, but once it starts becoming an issue that you didn’t call, then maybe that relationship isn’t for you.
For me, I believe love should feel free and comfortable. If you can’t be yourself around your partner, then something doesn’t feel right.
Sometimes you just have to tell people LOOK i love you & i'll probably always love you, but I'm no longer interested in the level of life you have to offer me & because of that I have to let you go. I'm not even asking you to change, you can keep doing exactly what you want to do & how you want to do it, you just can't do it with me anymore.
That someone doesn’t have money to give you doesn’t mean they don’t have money.
Again,
That someone doesn’t have money to give you at a point in time doesn’t mean they don’t have money.
It only means they don’t have money at that moment they can spare. Stop being an entitled parasite crying over someone else’s hard earned money. It’s a bad look.
If e easy, go make yours.
I'm grown enough to admit that due to the things I was put through in life, I'm a hard person to deal with sometimes. I overthink, worry, and can be hard to understand. I'm beyond territorial, and require a lot of patience. But I also know that I can love like no other. I can give you the world as mine is falling apart. I'm loyal and my heart is pure. I don't give up on people until I have no choice but to.
Luck flows through people and travels by conversation. The people you talk to determine the opportunities you find.
Keep talking to the same people, keep finding the same opportunities. Start talking to new people, start finding new opportunities.
If you want different luck, start walking into different rooms."
James clear
A Mother and her children put up a solo family protest in Maitama, Abuja, calling for the rescue of the kidnapped schoolchildren and teachers from Oyo state.
We all need to lend our voices.
If you’re in a good relationship with someone who treats you well but clearly has shortcomings and those shortcomings aren’t any form of abuse, then stay and make it work.
Relationships are about unlearning, relearning and compromise. You’re not going to find a perfect person out there because they don’t exist.
There’s absolutely nothing on the streets.
I’m not the only one who witnessed that massive giveaway Bandits hosted on TikTok. The desperation from Nigerians especially the girls, was honestly shocking.
Account numbers (mostly OPay and MoniePoint) were flying across the screen non-stop during his live stream between 12:00 AM and 1:00 AM two nights ago.
The Fulani host ended up dishing out over ₦50 million, and the way people were shamelessly begging their so-called oppressors for money left me speechless.
Thousands were tuned in, glued to the live.
How did we, as a country, sink to this level? It’s genuinely heartbreaking.💔
During my IT I went to stay with my Uncle and his family.
The wife was a Banker.
One night I heard him telling the wife that the Canada process is taking so much from him
Mentally and financially.
She said she got the house.
He should just focus on other stuff
After that night,we started eating good 😊
Not like we weren’t eating good,but she made sure he knew that she meant it when she said she got the house.
They are all in Canada now.
I’ll never understand the concept of not letting your wife work.
Makes no sense to me.
God, please put better people in my life. People who mean what they say and show it through their actions. I’ve spent enough time giving chances to people who only showed up when it benefited them. Enough time overlooking things I should’ve paid attention to from the start.