found out at work about the existence of Dyke College - unironically, expressly set up for girlbosses - name changed in '90s and then shut down in '13 :((((
@roxmother where does the "lessened or permanently" bit come in though, if not circular reasoning? is that inevitable from understanding both as types of trauma (permanence?) w/ notable physical dimension?
@roxmother huh i don't really get it, can you explain? like i can see how one would think like you laid out in OP, but don't see how it's inherent to the claim (maybe i'm mixing terms)
ICE is rounding up thousands of people with no criminal record and throwing them into concentration camps where conditions are so bad that people are committing suicide while the guards bet on who kills themselves next
@mysweetlyrobin the 1st part was bad enough (she was getting ghosted by him while not having her own place to stay at ~1 am w/o him eventually giving in), which he excused w/ "boundaries" (previously didn't want her staying over @ his parents' place). rest was just horrible willful doubling down
@mysweetlyrobin he was cruelly unhelpful to his friend after she was raped by Illumina, fearmongered about her mental illness to manipulate (which he bragged about) his friends (Deo + TapL) into going along w/ him, & used her breaching his boundaries while traumatized to cut her off