Go through that phone before you have a kid with them, before you put a title on the relationship, before you get married. There are multiple times that phone should be looked at so you know exactly what you’re getting yourself involved with. The whole “I’ll let whatever reveal itself to me when it’s time” is reckless. You don’t want things coming out 10yrs later that you could’ve figured out and seen a couple months in.
Anger is my ugliest trait and it's crazy cause I really am a genuine laid back person. I just hate feeling disrespected or played wit, shit turns me into a whole different animal fr 🤦🏾♂️