@Oyin_Laoye Well…..create a group chat and talk about your problems. You guys are your own issue, your ego won’t let you tell your fellow bros your problems and share whatever pain you have going on. But make it someone’s fault okay?
@Yusuf_Remmy@Kecyy When people say fuck around and find out, do you think it means it’s to go about having sex? Or you didn’t go to school? Is it the first time you are hearing that? Or it’s now a problem because it’s coming from her? Nna eh
My friends,
There comes a moment in every life when you must decide what truly matters. Not what is easy, not what is comfortable but what is right.
To serve the people is not a part-time commitment. It is not a title, a badge, or a position you wear when it suits you. It is a calling that demands everything you have and everything you are willing to become.
Because service means sacrifice
It’s time.
When my husband and I got married newly.
Before we got married, my mother in law had called me earlier and while discussing, she had told me he has never seen any lady with my husband, that I'm the first he brought home to show to her. She said if it's where they are causing trouble you will definitely see him there because he doesn't have time for any girl at all.
She said at times she'll ask him if he doesn't have a girlfriend and he'll tell her he doesn't have time for any girl.
So I understood what she was trying to tell me, I said okay ma.
Fast forward to our first night together, Omo e no funny, apparently oga never do the do before, and me too never do the do before.
No one lectured us about it nothing, then we began, we kept trying machine gun no enter anywhere. We tried and got tired my husband said we would go to a pharmacy the next morning if there's a drugs they will give us that will make the whole process work out.
When we got the pharmacy, we explained to the man, he looked at the both of us, then he asked me madam have you had sex before I said no, he turned to my husband, oga what about you he said.
That was how the man sat us down, and began giving lectures and steps on how to make the whole first time sess work.
We got home and tried again and there was progress, we were indoors for one week, na back to back.
Our landlord would come and knock and tell us to come out na and receive fresh air 😂, we no gree o.
When we finally had enough, we came out by ourselves.
Most times it is normal