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wanderer

[Fanzy 💫 @Ifanyima]

Real love isn’t butterflies, late night texts, cute photos, or perfect moments. Real love begins when the masks come off. It’s when someone sees the version of you that the world doesn’t get to see the overthinker, the broken soul, the insecure mind, the tired heart, the person who struggles silently.

Real love is finding someone who stays when you’re difficult to understand, when your emotions become heavy, when life becomes complicated, and when loving you requires patience instead of convenience.

It’s not about who stands beside you during your victories. It’s about who sits with you through your failures. Who wipes your tears when nobody else notices them. Who chooses to understand instead of judge. Who chooses to stay instead of leave.

Real love means accepting flaws, forgiving mistakes, supporting dreams, healing wounds, and growing together through every season of life. It means being someone’s safe place in a world full of temporary people.

[Boluwatife @TEEPHTREND]

To my future person:

I want us to be intentional, not accidental. Too many people stumble into relationships built on impulse and wonder why they collapse. I've been learning that peace requires work, that love needs daily tending. When you arrive, I'll be ready to practice with you the way others only dream of.

[Big Cuz @imohumoren]

Falling in love completely, totally. With all your heart. Not wanting anything from your lover besides their well-being, their presence and their warm embrace. Yearning to see their face, to hear their voice, their scent. Listening to their problems, comforting them, feeding them, reminding them of their appointments, taking walks. Love; pure, simple

[mhysa @sawftkitty]

When that guy was crying at the sight of his bride walking down the aisle, a lot of people were calling it performative.
Internet culture now is very pessimistic.

[mhysa @sawftkitty]

Lol, they shouldn't. People on the internet are too miserable to fully engage with the dynamics of happily married people authentically.

[Charms @The_amakaaa]

The worst reputation you can ever have is being someone who over promises and under delivers. Whether at work, in friendships, relationships or any situation where character comes into question. Your word needs to mean something.

[liminal @Liminal1988]

Chosen vs. Convenient

[Fene @FeneAustin]

My own cup is empty. This is why I am currently unable to pour into others. If anyone cares about me, this is the time to pour into me. Even the strongest soldiers sometimes get vulnerable and need rest.

[. @B0ymanager]

4 guys
total silence

my guy: "we gas make am bro"
All man: "omoooooooooo"

[Professor. Eleniyan ☎️🐐 @Bigwavee00]

Let me tell you something 😭😂

If my wife leaves the kids with me and I mistakenly lose guard and the children end up doing this…

It’s either:
- we clean those chairs completely,
- contribute money and buy another one,
- or all of us relocate to Jalingo before she comes back 😩💀

Because if she enters the house and sees this scene… both me and the kids already know say peace treaty no dey again 😂😂

[Adam Mayer @AdamNMayer]

The new Four Seasons in Cartagena, Colombia is absolutely jaw-dropping.

[LEYE @leyeConnect]

This is proof that motion design when done right makes things incredible better by restoring intent to an object, because most still images of this car looks like a scaled up version of a toy; very stiff and lacking in distinction, far removed from the visual DNA of a Ferrari.

[toye! @iloveyoutoye]

I'm definitely the person you meet through other people. I'm not outside enough for you to just stumble upon me 😂😂

[David @themccoyman]

on the flip side—no matter how good things are, they can always get better.

[-valar morghulis- @eldivine]

You listen and learn.

[Bàbájídé B𝗹𝘂𝗻𝘁 @CRawkeen]

There’s a secret people have been using to buy homes in Lagos. Some of you already know but not taking advantage. I’ve talked about it before.

It’s called Mreif . The government is willing to finance you with up to 100M in mortgage to buy your home. And you can service it for up to 20 years .

Just have your equity.
Find a property that matches your income
The property must also have a valid title

You’re good. Ask your big boys and girls that earn well in banks, some of them are landlords already.
It’s real, I have closed sales with this.
And it’s open to Nigerians in diaspora too.

Embrace it .

[𝕌𝕘 🥀 @UgWrites]

"Lovers & Leavers"

Most lovers & leavers are great communicators. Real lovers. Givers. Kind, & patient to a fault.

They’ll take their time to explain, teach you their love language, express their emotions, make you feel the deepest love you’ve ever experienced, & still remain patient while waiting for you to reciprocate.

It almost feels like a fairy tale, however the love is soaked in realism.

Most times, the partners of "Lovers & Leavers" take that love for granted. They become complacent, believing their partner could never leave no matter how poorly they’re treated.

But with time, patience starts waning. Emotional distance starts breeding. The effort fades silently. Then one day, they take the exit door with utmost quietness.

That’s usually when the other partner suddenly wants to "fix things."
Unfortunately, by then, the damage has already settled deep.

Learn, fix up, love your partner properly. Learn their love language. Emotional starvation is soul wrecking, yet so many people treat it like it’s harmless.

[Kiemute @FreshDeltaBwoy]

For those who don't know the penalty when you break any of the FRSC law.

https://t.co/3d4zDYzShA

[liminal @Liminal1988]

How to actually try again in a relationship:

[Kreative Doctor ⚕️ @the_grafixmedic]

Confused: Feynman technique

Exhausted: Pomodoro method

Distracted: Screen time block

Unorganized: Second brain system

U Forgetful: Spaced repetition

Unmotivated: 3-2-1 method

Procrastinating: Pomodoro timer