Bring back yearning!
This “chook, chop and dip” culture has to die!
Genuine interest, communication, deliberate commitment and communication is hotter than coitus.
You people wonder why sex doesn’t satisfy you, it’s because it’s just a cherry on top. What gives sex real value is depth of commitment and care.
“For worse” is not cheating, abuse, control, gaslighting, constant disrespect, or lying.
“For worse” is health challenges, stressful times, hard conversations, family issues, financial struggles, or grief.
Key differences.
Being with a man who WANTS to be a father>>>>>>> having a supportive and equally excited and present partner during pregnancy is important for baby's imprint and for mom's perinatal/postpartum period. Pregnancy is too risky of a situation to be having babies with loser ass men.
A lot of you never held any leadership role prior to marriage. Not your offices, not in associations you belong to, not even headboy of your primary school, so marriage is the one place you finally get to be the local champion leader you’ve been having wet dreams about.
Pathetic
A man must be scared to disappoint you, scared to lose you, scared to made you sad, scared to break your heart. I think a healthy relationship requires a level of fear on the man’s end.
For a lot of people it’s not your village people. It’s all you - your laziness, your complacency, your lack of discipline and lack of finishing strong
You are the problem.