girl to girl.... put you first. hit the gym consistently. keep your nails done. eat GOOD food. do the hobbies you enjoy. take your vitamins. 9-10 hours of sleep. buy that new workout set. delete distractions. water your grass so much that you don't give a shit about anyone
I think the purest form of love is just wanting someone to notice life with you. "taste this. look at that. hear this song." again and again. until you can't imagine noticing life without them
Women couldn’t imagine an equitable heterosexual relationship where both parties are treated well so they dreamed up the “golden retriever boyfriend” as a consolation prize; a man who is too dumb to be cruel. That’s why now they’re teaching all their boyfriends how to bathe.
The best skill I've developed is figuring out how to stay in a good mood even when there’s so many reasons I could be in a bad one. when you start doing this you don’t have bad days you have bad moments in a good day.
ngl having people that love you is one thing. But having people who still love you when you’re a burden, when things are a mess, when you’re in the wrong…those are your people. To truly be loved is to still be loved when it’s inconvenient to love you.
I love seeing couples who are actual best friends w/ each other. Not a relationship based solely on duty & societal expectations but one based on mutual understanding, laughter, shared experiences, shared interests & more. I genuinely think these are the happiest relationships.