NGL I JUST HEARD SOMEONE SAY, “MAYBE YOU DON’T NEED MORE TIME TO HEAL, MAYBE YOU NEED MORE EXPERIENCES THAT SHOW YOUR NERVOUS SYSTEM A DIFFERENT REALITY,” AND YEAH… IT ECHOED IN ME
hardest pill i had to swallow this year is learning how to pick myself back up & how to cope w/o the ppl who i thought would be in my life for a long time. i had to realize that you have to do shit for yourself b/c the only person that will put you back on your two feet is you
I finally understood that when a person doesn't want you anymore, they won't try to change. They will keep doing the same things that hurt you, until you're the one who finally decides to walk away.
I heard someone say, "no contact for you is just a regular day for them" and I never looked back. Stop obsessing over people who aren't losing any sleep over you.
This generation hides behind “I don't owe anyone anything” to avoid accountability. Yes, you do. You owe apologies to those you hurt. Gratitude to those who showed up. Respect to those you disrespected. That's not weakness, that's maturity.
to that girl laying down in her bed thinking if she’s good enough, you’re beautiful, you’re worthy. i hope you find happiness and love within yourself. you deserve it all.
Breakups are ok. Starting over is ok. Moving on is ok. Saying no is ok. Being alone is ok. What is NOT ok is staying somewhere where u are not happy, valued, or unappreciated, that's NOT ok.