Don't threaten to send someone to the office (unless it's an emergency):
1. That makes your administrators the bad guys. They should be seen as people that help people
2. That takes away your power
3. That damages the relationship with the kid
4. It's an easy escape for the kid
Always remember to take care of yourself, and do not be afraid to ask for help. People care about you, and want to help you. If you need to talk to someone, don't be afraid to reach out.
Language of successful principals:
How can I help?
What do you think?
Your work matters
I trust you and our team
I appreciate your commitment
Thank you for working hard
I was wrong, I am sorry
Your success is my priority
Do you have the tools to succeed?
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