By articulating your worries without assigning blame, you can feel safe that they’ll better understand your perspective. Hard on the problem, soft on the person
“Use your heads as you live and work among outsiders. Don’t miss a trick. Make the most of every opportunity. Be gracious in your speech. The goal is to bring out the best in others in a conversation, not put them down, not cut them out.”
Colossians 4:5-6 MSG