Dear ThatWitchYouKnow (cute name, btw 🙄),
Let me help you out.
A) Your children owe you nothing for raising them. YOU chose to have them.
B) YOU raised your sons to be that way. You & their dad, anyway, whom you chose.
C) You are their MOTHER. Not their ward.
Grow up, alky.
And what about centuries of female violence? If you think this is all because of one case, you’re dumb. There are things called “catalysts.” A lot of us have begged men to question women and feminism for almost a decade. Thank God they finally are.
Sad it took 3 kids dying, but.
If you’ve never had to take a flaming hot shit while holding your restless infant so that he doesn’t cry and wake up your toddlers too early, are you really even a mom? 🤔
#ThirdTimeThisWeek
So you will only pray for someone if they live the way that you believe that they are supposed to, and you tell Andrew that *HE* doesn’t act like a Christian and is too prideful??
Yikes. Smh.
@paleochristcon I will, if you agree to honestly reflect on your behaviour and repent for your persistent sins of pride, wrath, vanity, gluttony etc. You are the EXACT definition of a hypocrite in the biblical sense of the word.
Being black is hard...so I killed a white boy.
Being a mom is hard.....so I killed my children.
Being injured is hard.....so I assassinated a CEO.
Being LGBTQ is hard......so I assassinated a conservative.
Time to end the excuses era.
It's time for the JUSTICE ERA.
One reason women get so angry about having to “tell a man what needs to be done” and why they will never stop complaining is because
For men, the stress is heavily tied to EXECUTION. The actual work.
The garbage needs to go out? Take it out.
The garage is a mess? Saturday.
The sink needs fixing? I’ll handle it after work.
He mentally schedules the problem, puts it in a box, and stops carrying it until it’s time to act.
But for women, the stress starts LONG BEFORE the physical work.
She notices the laundry, remembers the groceries, thinks about tomorrow’s dinner, sees the dirty bathroom, remembers the kid needs an appointment next month and suddenly she feels like she has already been working for hours.
That’s the “mental load.”
The problem begins when managing your own mental load becomes SOMEONE ELSE’S responsibility.
“I shouldn’t have to tell you.”
Why not?
Communication is not oppression. Your husband is not a mind reader or Professor XAVIER from XMEN
If five things are running through your head simultaneously, he doesn’t automatically inherit those five thoughts simply because he lives with you.
And constantly THINKING about a task doesn’t necessarily make the task more physically difficult…it can make YOUR EXPERIENCE of it more stressful.
Men cope by compartmentalizing: identify the problem, schedule it, execute it, move on. Simple.
That isn’t necessarily laziness. Sometimes it’s exactly how they PREVENT mental overload.
So instead of demanding psychic abilities, communicate.
“Garbage is full.” Okay.
“We need groceries tomorrow.” Okay.
“Can you wash the dishes tonight?” Okay.
Problem identified. Problem handled.
A peaceful household doesn’t require two people obsessing over the same mental checklist. It requires COMMUNICATION, division of responsibility, and execution. Plain and simple.
Your man doesn’t need to think exactly like you to be a good partner.
And making him GUESS what you’re thinking isn’t emotional intelligence.
Telling him clearly is. Stay bless.
I saw this pop up in my feed and had to look it up. It’s true. In Canada, a mother who murders her newborn is charged with infanticide which Canadian law treats as a lesser charge than murder. The maximum sentence for a mother killing her infant is only five years in prison. Canada is one of the most evil nations on Earth. We have invaded and bombed countries for far less.
I can’t stand the “But animals do it, too!” argument. 🙄
BRO. Stahp. Dolphins rape each other. Is that next on the advocacy list - “LGBTQIA+R”? 😪🙄
*places a piece of bread on either side of your face*