The fake polite "Dom" aka "nice guy" are extremely dangerous type of person
Weaponized gentleness to blur boundaries.
Calling someone a pet names without consent isn't harmless flirting. Consent applies to language too.
A Dom job isn't to test loopholes in a sub comfort level.
Protective doms.
"I'll kick his fucking teeth in for looking at you" "Fix your shirt" "Close your legs, icky girl" "Behave." "Eyes down" "Hold my hand" "I'll do that for you" "Don't look at him" "Eyes on me" "You're mine."