Nothing humbles an Indian tourist more than realizing every country they have traveled to are much cleaner , better managed, with roads that have never seen potholes. Makes you wonder about your past karma that has rewarded us with public servants who treat public funds like an all you can steal buffet.
Interesting how no such requests were made to families of grooms who used to brazenly put out ads in matrimonial columns for fair, slim, beautiful and homely brides, but men are now feeling crushed under the burden of unrealistic expectations.
You lot pretty much invented them.
Males are dependent on females to function in society. The foundation of our world's economy is on the backs of the unpaid domestic labor of women in the home, which allows the rest of society to function.
This labor is taken for granted as husbands feel entitled to the labor of their wives; they believe that they are in possession of women's time and effort as an extension of their belief of possession of women. Around the world, husbands command their wives to cook, clean, and raise children for them. Women are also expected to preform emotional labor for their husbands and aid them in relaxing after a long day of work.
Men, however, are not expected to do the same for women. When a man performs labor for women he expects to be reimbursed for it with brownie points or sex-if he does not already demand sex as a previous entitlement. Cheat codes are built in to society to excuse men from performing emotional labor for women.
If a woman comes to a man seeking emotional validation for something which has distressed her, rather than being expected to provide the woman with validation and support, society offers the man the cheat code of calling her "overly emotional" so that way he is excused from the burden of considering her feelings.
Oh no. Not the market finally pricing men the way itās priced women for centuries. How tragic!
āSociety promised boys a house and a wife for working hardā uh no it didnāt, that was the job description men decided on for being a man. Meanwhile girls were promised NOTHING and told to be grateful for the privilege of unpaid labour and no exit.
āEvaluate him like a startup, not a finished productā - it keeps getting better and better. Marriage isnāt VC funding, and nobody owes you a bet on your maybe/someday. Funny how ālook at potentialā only gets said once looks, age, and salary stop working in menās favour.
Hereās the actual plot twist - women used to need marriage to survive. Now a lot of them donāt. Turns out when survival stops being the price, standards naturally go up. Wild concept.
So no, society isnāt suddenly cruel to men like itās been cruel to women. The old deal that she owes you everything, you owe her you having a job, just died. Youāre not entitled to a wife for showing up employed, same as she was never entitled to a husband for showing up alive.
Cry harder.
Show his face. Show the girlfriendās face. Show his older videos. Show CCTV footage of him meeting his girlfriend. Make it prime time news. Show snap screenshots. Give it Siya level coverage. Come on. Donāt be shy. Itās only fair.
My translations came during the divorce and after, I build my public profile harder in those years for myself and my daughter, that led me to where I am today professionally.
Raw truth most people wonāt say out loud:
After a toxic marriage or heartbreak, the hardest part isnāt the breakup.
Itās unlearning the version of yourself that stayed small to keep the peace. Rebuilding your self-trust takes time.
Some days youāll miss the chaos. Thatās normal.
Who else is in this messy, beautiful rebuilding phase?
@Tanya_aneja0209 please tag women from our amazing group to share their rebuilding stories here.
Kadın nefretinin ne kadar eskiye dayandıÄını, antik metinleri okuduÄunuzda daha iyi anlıyorsunuz. Ve eskilerin kadın nefreti iƧeren felsefi metinlerinin nasıl bugünkü erkek podcastlerine evrildiÄini. 2500 yıl ƶnce eline kalemi alıp bir Åeyler saƧmalayan erkekle bugün eline mikrofonu alıp rastgele kadınlara sallayan erkek arasında hiƧbir fark yok. Ve bu erkek yazarlar, erkek cinsinin sƶzde en akıllıları. DiÄer erkekler bu filozof ve podcastƧilerin zırvalarını okuyor, dinliyor, onları ƶrnek alıp kadın nefretlerini pekiÅtiriyor, ego mastürbasyonu yapıyorlar. 2500 yılda hiƧbir ilerleme kaydedilemedi.
Aristo, kadınların ikinci sınıf aÅaÄı yaratıklar olduÄunu hiƧ Ƨekinmeden sƶylerken, sƶzde āaydınlanma ƧaÄıā filozofu David Hume kadınları histerik canlılar olarak tanımlarken, sonsuz sayıda kadınla seks yapamadıÄı iƧin ƶfkeli bugünün podcastƧi erkeÄi de aynı Åeyi sƶylüyor. Erkekler birbirlerini dinleyip birbirlerini eÄlendiriyor, birbirlerini haklı buluyorlar. Bu āmanosphereā yeni deÄil, 2500 yıllık belki daha eski. Ve kadınlar tabii ki de bunun dıÅında tutuldu, sƶz hakkı, kendini savunma hakkı verilmedi. Verilse de dinleyen erkek yok zaten. O yüzden, hiƧbir erkekten akıl almayın, adamlarda iƧselleÅtirilmiÅ anlamsız ve sebepsiz bir kadın nefreti var. Kadınlara sallamadan duramıyorlar. Bu zihinsel problemli cinsi deÄil, kadınları okuyun, onları dinleyin. Kadınların size katacaÄı Ƨok Åey var.
Its funny how 5 cases are enough to scare men of marriage ( 5 cases are also result of forced marriage of women and patriarchy) but when 12000 cases against women are recorded daily, suddenly they are told "not all men", hypocrisy is loud and clear
Men used to be 30 years old married with 3 kids and a wife and entitled to sex as and when they wanted sans any contraception, had a server for life, plus affairs as they wanted, occasional visit to a sex worker was also fine.
Now 30 years old guys have had 60 flings, 1 office romance, 1 online "serious affair", multiple profiles on dating apps and a brag about body count.
While they live this new version they also get to anonymously abuse random women on X and stalk on Instagram.
They want the same standards for women as 100 years ago and newer ones for them.
This isn't progress, this is degeneration of the worse kind fuelled by capitalistic patriarchy.
šØ JAPANESE LADY : "A small group of only 224 Pakistanis in Hokkaido have taken over the entire area.
They have created a "no-go zone" for Japanese. We Japanese can't go there š³
They chase you out if you're Japanese"
Same Story everywhere !!
The probability of a person being bitten by a venomous snake is 1 in 70,000.
The probability of a woman being assaulted by a man is 1 in 3.
nnd for some reason, the fear of snakes is considered entirely justified. Whereas womenās fear of male violence is seen as exaggerated.
Sweetheart,
I did everything , yet all I received in return were curses. I was blamed because our son was born a special child.
I was taunted for not bringing enough dowry.
I was even cursed for skipping a family vacation with my in-laws because I chose to attend my son's Republic Day performance.
I was accused for simply talking to male colleagues about work.
I was even criticized for wearing lipstick. No matter what you do, it's never enough...
He beat her so she filed a police complaint and he had to do his own household chores. Indian men are having meltdowns because their actions have consequences now and women arenāt tolerating abuse!