High Value Men

Entrepreneur | Biz Founder | Ex Corporate | Father | Living Life

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Men - its competitive out there.. Ask yourself "I am a top 20% man?"

You should look to improve in these areas:

1) Physique
2) Mindset
3) Leadership
4) Income
5) Wealth

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Strive for the Mindset of Steve McQueen..

“I live for myself and answer to nobody”

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The life you want comes at a price.

That price is planning, consistent effort and the honesty to confront who you are now and who you want to be.

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Black Swan Event

"A black swan is an unpredictable event...has potentially severe consequences. Black swan events are characterized by their extreme rarity, their severe impact"

Men at some point in your life, you will be hit with one of these..

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20 Signs of a man going nowhere;

- Everything has an excuse
- Nothing is his fault
- Everything is "tomorrow" or "when this happens I will.."
- Follows the herd on everything
- Is out of shape
- Has a comfort mindset
- Thinks only 1 step ahead
- Is reactive
- Lets his woman lead

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Being in control of your emotions in today Soy World is a Superpower.

As a High Value Man, you must construct a “Moat of Reason” around yourself.

You must never uncontrollably loose your shit.

Controlled anger is fine in the right context.

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Getting ahead of most other men is easy..

..Just ignore what society has told you about how life works…

Even if you want a corporate job, family and the white picket fence, look for men who are outside the norm and work out how to apply what they know to your life,..

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Men, take it from a 40's man, building a High Value life is like building a house;

- You need foundations and the basic house, then
- Every year, you should be adding and upgrading

Or you can chose a house of straw or sticks...

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One thing I have relearned over the last month or so.

True loyalty is very rare. Don't expect it from anyone bar some family and a few very close friends.

An even then, be prepared to be disappointed.

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Men, develop a taste for;

-A good Whiskey or Bourbon
-A fine cigar
-A good Red
-The perfect watch
-Expensive shoes
-Fast cars
-Beautiful women

And if you can’t get them or afford them, develop an appreciation. It will mean much more when you can.

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Men, be the Iceberg..

- Never reveal yourself fully to a woman
- Never reveal your entire wealth (through word or possessions)
- Never reveal your entire thoughts
- Never tell anyone your full intentions

Nothing good ever came of doing these things.

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Regrets.

How to get to 45 and not have regrets

- Live for you
- Have some deep friendships
- Don't squander what you earn
- Create value for yourself and others
- Have an open door.. with a moat outside it
- Keep the company of beautiful women
- Dream big and enjoy the small

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You get better/richer/stronger by doing the work on yourself.

Day by day.

Month by month.

Year by year.

Anyone who tells you different is lying to you, and if you believe them, you are lying to yourself.

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Men..

- Society doesn't care about you
- Society doesn't care about your happiness or success
- Society wants you to move over for women
- Society thinks you are disposable
- Society is happy to see you fail

What the fuck you gonna do about it?

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We used to say – “No one is coming to save you”

We need to change that to – “They are coming to fuck you up”

Don't let them.

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Diversity is your strength!

Wait.. What?

Diversifying your life is a Superpower.

- Diversify your women
- Diversify your friends
- Diversify your income
- Diversify your investments
- Diversify your interests
- Diversify your diet
- Diversify your exercise

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Kindness. Seeing a lot in my timeline - men don't experience kindness..

Well, be kind to yourself first;

- Stay out of debt
- Stay off MSM
- Keep in shape
- Eat right
- Cut down all media
- Pick up a book

Do that and you wont need anyone's kindness

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There is only one Truth.

And that is the answer to the question – “Are YOU getting what YOU want from life?”

You either are or you aren’t.

Ask yourself that question right now.

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Life is geared to reward the top 10% and punish the lower tiers

-Top 10% hold 70% of the wealth
-Women want the top 20% of men
-Life expectancy is 15 years more for the richest men
than poorest

Get into the top 10% - your life literally depends on it.

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You can become top 20%, 10% easily.

Just use the idea of “compound interest.” And apply it to;

-Your diet
-Working out
-Starting a side hustle
-Reading/learning
-Cutting down media

Make small progressions each week on these and they will compound up over time and,...

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Imagine your best self...

- What would he look like?
- How would he live?
- How much would he earn?
- What sort of women would be in his life?

Now walk towards him.. one step at a time... starting today.

He's waiting, but you have to go to him, he cannot come to you.