it is selfish to enter someone's life, see that they are a loving, cheerful, and good person, and decide to disrupt their peace because you have not dealt with your own issues. leave people alone if you have no intention of showing up with sincerity.
When you are in a serious relationship, you suppose to move differently. Kunezinto nje ekmele zikweqe, kuneyndawo nie ekmele singakboni kuzona ungatshelwanga muntu, ay ngoba kukuthi you're being controlled or your partner either being insecure kodwa nje inhlonipho ibalulekile. Ukucabangela umuntu wakho before you do anything kubalulekile, Ucabangele nesthunzi sakhe. A relationship where respect & consideration is practised is a happy relationship❤️