It’s incredibly selfish to enter someone’s life, recognise how loving, genuine, and full of light they are and then disrupt their peace because you haven’t dealt with your own issues. It’s one thing to be healing, to have fears or to carry wounds from your past. None of us are perfect and we all have things we’re working through. But there’s a difference between being imperfect and making someone else pay for the pain you refuse to confront. You don’t get to seek comfort in someone’s kindness, enjoy the way they love you and then treat their heart carelessly because you don’t know how to handle your own emotions. Someone else’s love is not a place to hide from the work you need to do on yourself. If you have no intention of showing up with honesty, consistency and sincerity, leave people alone. You never know how hard someone has worked to find their peace and you have no right to make them pay for wounds they didn’t cause.
Blueface said “let’s say I survived & your 3 year old dies, bitch I’m beating you up for the rest of your life” 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 I HATE WHEN MEN RIGHT AND FUNNY
i’ll never be ashamed of being a lover girl. i love loving ONE person & standing ten toes behind mine. ima spoil you with love,affection, loyalty & support. ima be your peace, your biggest supporter, & the one you can call on at any hour knowing i’m showing up. i’ll love you through your bad days, deal with your moods, give you real advice & stand beside you when life gets heavy. i’m not running when shit gets hard or letting you push me away just because you’re going thru it. but i need that same energy in return. & that’s what scares me about love . i know how hard i love & how much of myself i give. i got a heart full of love .. but i know i can’t take being broken.
niggas will fumble a bitch who would stand ten toes behind them because they get too comfortable thinking her loyalty means she’ll tolerate anything. start treating her like she’s replaceable and watch her become the one you can’t get back. all that effort tryna impress bitches who wouldn’t do a damn thing for you, just to lose the one who genuinely wanted to see you win. dumbest trade you’ll ever make.
I need more women in my circle who talk about business, credit, investing/property, traveling the world, building generational wealth, and creating unforgettable memories with our kids! 💕
at this point, nobody gives me butterflies anymore, y’all just give me trust issues and another reason to stay single. i miss the days when getting a text made me smile instead of making me wonder what the hidden meaning was. now i’m analyzing everything, questioning intentions, and preparing myself for disappointment before anything even happens. all i wanted was a genuine connection, not a full time job trying to figure out whether someone actually means what they say.
Sometimes you have to be honest with yourself and say "I'm not loved here, I'm not appreciated, I'm not valued, I'm not seen". Then walk away, and stay away
niggas will treat the bitch who’d go through hell for ’em like she ain’t worth shit, all cause they mistake her being solid and willing to do whatever for ’em as weakness. whole time they shitting on the realest bitch they’ll ever have, tryna impress hoes who wouldn’t piss on ’em if they was on fire. fuck around and lose the only bitch who was really in your corner.
i think one of the most attractive things a man can do is make a woman feel like her emotions aren't an inconvenience. like you can be upset, sensitive, overwhelmed, whatever, and he's still gonna be gentle with you. THAT is masculine to me.
Niggas who grew up on survival are cold as fuckkk. Especially if they grew up poor or neglected or abused. They don't give a fuck about anything or anyone other than their survival. Understandable but damn💀