Aramide

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[Aramide @Ar_amide]

@gbengaopa @PastorMarvy @nigimmigration @fkeyamo @FAAN_Official @mikeachimugu01 I spoke about what I know and can defend.

[Aramide @Ar_amide]

@PastorMarvy @nigimmigration @fkeyamo @FAAN_Official @mikeachimugu01 I only spoke about what I know and how the current operations are, a typical immigration officer should be on uniform, well badged and on his desk when on duty and definitely not carrying any passengers bag.

[Aramide @Ar_amide]

@PastorMarvy @nigimmigration @fkeyamo @FAAN_Official @mikeachimugu01 That vehicle is not a taxi. It’s an airside security patrol vehicle, it’s also not on d runway but on d apron. Also, those staff are ground handling staff that probably just finished departing an aircraft &documenting their work. The apron is under renovation & offices demolished

[Man’s Bible⚡️ @Man_s_Bible]

8. The right person still needs the right version of you

Getting back with the first wife was not magic. It only worked because growth finally happened.

Better communication, less ego, more accountability, more respect. The same person will not create a better marriage if the same man returns. A second chance needs a second version of you. That was his answer in the end.

It was never just about which wife. It was about which man showed up.

[Man’s Bible⚡️ @Man_s_Bible]

6. Repair is the skill that saves love

He said the first marriage ended because both people stopped repairing. Hurt stayed unspoken too long.

Pride stayed bigger than apology. Distance got mistaken for peace. Then peace turned into emptiness. Going back only worked because repair finally became the focus.

Love survives through repair, not through perfect compatibility. That lesson changed how he saw marriage forever.

[Man’s Bible⚡️ @Man_s_Bible]

5. Friendship mattered more than passion

The first wife knew the real version of him. Not the polished version, not the charming version, the real one. That kind of friendship is rare and easy to undervalue until it is gone.

Attraction can start a bond, but friendship carries it through ordinary years. The second marriage had chemistry, but not the same ease.

Ease becomes priceless with age. That is what he missed most.

[Man’s Bible⚡️ @Man_s_Bible]

4. The second marriage exposed the pattern

Two years was enough to reveal that the same cycle had returned. Distance after conflict, poor repair, wrong expectations, emotional shutdown all came back.

Different woman, same man, same ending. That pattern forced him to stop blaming personalities alone.

Patterns reveal what excuses hide. Excuses protect pride. Patterns destroy it. That second divorce gave him a mirror.

[Man’s Bible⚡️ @Man_s_Bible]

3. Ego made the first exit look right

Pride can make leaving feel like strength when it is really avoidance. Divorce looked like the clean solution because it let him escape hard conversations.

Escape feels powerful in the moment. Later it becomes expensive. Time passed and the same personal flaws kept showing up.

That is when the truth got hard to ignore. The problem was bigger than the marriage.

[Man’s Bible⚡️ @Man_s_Bible]

2. Familiar love still had deeper roots

The first wife was not just history, she was home. Shared years, shared losses, shared language, shared memories all mattered more than he understood.

Time creates a depth that excitement cannot fake. The second marriage had novelty, but not the same roots. Roots are what hold a relationship together when life gets ugly.

Without roots, everything feels easier to leave. That truth hit him late.

[Man’s Bible⚡️ @Man_s_Bible]

1. Pain does not disappear with a new face

Leaving one marriage did not erase the wounds inside. The second marriage got hit by the same fears, the same habits, the same blind spots.

A new person can change the scenery, but not the man bringing the baggage. Most people think the next relationship will feel lighter by default.

It rarely does when the problem lives inside you. Unhealed pain just changes address. That was the first lesson.

[Man’s Bible⚡️ @Man_s_Bible]

My uncle divorced his wife in his forties.

Married someone else within a year.

Divorced her two years later.

Then remarried his first wife.

I asked him why.

His answer stopped me cold:

[Aramide @Ar_amide]

@Bulablu556 @OurFavOnlineDoc According to you abi?

[Aramide @Ar_amide]

@OurFavOnlineDoc @ammielv I don’t agree wt what he said & I’m a full blooded Yoruba. Caution shouldn’t b mistaken 4 fear & generalization is very bad, however, I think ur messages can be worded with less curse words & aggression, you also have as much followings as he does. I see this in some of ur posts

[South Side Bandit ⚚ @groundnut_ninja]

All this 2face and Annie gist just had me thinking about this video again 💔
Marriages are not easy, break ups and divorces are worse. Especially if it's with someone you shared a long time of amazing fiery moments with. I'm happy they chose themselves in the end, but I'm sure when they did love each other, they were truly happy beyond anything in this world.

[Aramide @Ar_amide]

@DrJoeAbah Happy birthday doc, God’s blessings always.

[Aramide @Ar_amide]

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[PATO PATO🇳🇬🇺🇸 @peculiarpat1]

Let's compare your analysis with the reality of the majority of Nigerians. If indeed, 100k is needed to feed a child for 3 months, how come we are paying workers (minimum wagers) 210k in 3 months?

If the government decided to see things from your prism, why aren't they also seeing things in this perspective when it comes to deciding minimum wage?

What you have done is exactly what some countries do that brings about welfare programs that help those at the lower side of the ladder. If a child needs 1k every day for food, then we don't need a prophet to tell us that any civil servant who earns less than 120k per month needs significant financial assistance.

You come to me as someone who thinks and breathes elitism in a society that many are genuinely poor and need all the help they can get.

[Aramide @Ar_amide]

@jon_d_doe From so many comments I’ve seen, d pregnancy was blamed on d lady which is very unfair, they should both share d responsibility but marriage is a different ball game, nobody should b guilt tripped in2 marriage. They need to have a serious discussion &reach a reasonable solution