@KotaTheFoe Further to this, if rituals are done for said paternal ancestors are we sure, as paternity is not confirmed until a blood test has confirmed. So I think safe bet is to stick to what we are sure of which is maternal side and stay appeasing them. No?
@tanyajunghans I so agree with you. I don’t get the obsession with teaching “independence” to babies as soon as possible. I love that my kids are Velcro babies and I’ll allow it for as long as possible.
@_Bonga Its lack of registration at home affairs does not deem it unrecognised by law. Home affairs registration obviously gives it formality but if elements of a traditional marriage are satisfied they are married, and therefore must get divorced formally.