TW/suicide
so just so you guys are aware @THOUGHTBOUTARMY is infact @commontransws yes guy that may have caused the suicide of a child and larped being trans. getting worried coz he says he’s moving account again
Anywhere near me ever again.
I will be taking breaks from commissioning ppl but my close friends for the time being while I heal..
Please stay safe out there, everyone! ~
Spread awareness, as I don't want anybody to end up going through the same situation as mine or risk getting pressured to spare her money or getting scammed.
I just hope she sees this and takes accountability for her actions in the future. But either way, I don't want her to go-
Yet have so much to learn.
If shit like this happens again, it will be a hard block, as I cannot deal with this anymore. And my mental health hasn't really been the greatest lately..
I encourage everyone to NOT harass her in any way. I'm only leaving this out there to-
Advantage of me while dealing with her silly games for the last few years, I had already dealt with a lot of ppl like her in the past bc of how vulnerable I was back then.
I am still working on being more vigilant with ppl when setting up boundaries as I'm pushing 30, and I-
Viewed me as a "friend" just by helping her with her finances, as this was none of my business. The best solution is to open emergency commissions publicly, rather than DMing random ppl to spare her money while doing so.
Sorry, but I am absolutely disgusted by how she took-
Early, without saying anything.
Frankly, I would've given her a chance to refund me. But I am already at my limit, so I gave her my first confrontation and cut ties with her bc she's just gonna keep delaying it and use me for money anyways.
I am genuinely hurt by how she only-
Her progress on my comm she hasn't started working at all while begging me for money. That is not how being a genuine friend fucking works!
After confronting her many times and asking for a refund, she told me that I have to wait for another 30 days.. even though, she got home-
You should NOT beg anybody directly for any more money, whether they have already paid you or not. It is very unprofessional of you to do so, and ppl would view this as a scam.
I understand she has gone through a lot of issues, but she was CONSTANTLY making excuses and delaying-
Where she doesn't seem to care about my personal boundaries at all..
ESPECIALLY when I have my own money to take care of my finances as well. I have commissioned her a few times in the past, where she kept delaying her progress and ripping me off.
When you open commissions,-
Apparently, she is known for begging her moots (including my close friends) in DMs to spare her money, and for deleting her messages when we don't reply. I have told her many times to stop, as it isn't my responsibility to pay her finances, but she kept pushing it over and over-