Tomboy is a phase all great women go through. Normally in their teens, which they then outgrow as they enter their young womanhood and come to appreciate the positive attributes of their femininity more.
Failure to outgrow it naturally results in lesbianism, which is simply a more drawn out way of overcoming the pathology - rejection of her own femininity. You see the tomboy has rejected the feminine within herself as undesirable or otherwise inferior, and thus for all intent and purposes wishes to larp as a pseudo man, which in the quest for respect and gratification, includes knowing the pleasure of erotically dominating a woman.
Short of going full trans and thus committing to surgery and injections, the tomboy takes wishing they were a man and trying to be one to its penultimate conclusion.
Hilariously, for these women, the only thing that actually snaps them out of their tomboyism is not a renewed appreciation for their own femininity, but full circle disgust for the feminine, for having been in a relationship with a woman inhabiting the “more masculine role”, they conclude women are a pain in the ass they don’t want to deal with, so retire the larp and then take up the position of being that very woman themselves.
You’ve got to fucking laugh at how ridiculous it is.
Not my most elegant post, no, but there is definitely something to this.
Signs that you missed your home etiquette lessons.
Especially when you visit people and do these:
1) You shower and leave soap lathers on the wall.
I can chase you back to your house that very day.
It takes nothing to rinse off the walls after bathing. Don't disgust me.
2) You dump dishes on the sink with left over crumbs of food on it.
I don't understand. What happens to taking off the left over food in the trash?
3) I'm cooking, and you're telling me how you cook yours.
Oya, come and collect the pot and cook it. Don't try that rubbish.
4) You take the last piece of apple, and you're not kind enough to replace it.
This is a very bad habit. You don't take the last piece of item and not replace it.
5) Water accidentally spills on the floor, and you leave it.
Anything that spills, please wipe it. I don't want to step on water.
6) You see your host's shoes outside, you wear yours into the house. As how nau???
7) You pick a pen from the drawer. You're done using it, you keep it on the table.
Me that kept it in the drawer, I don't have sense abi?
Make sure you keep everything in the same position you saw them before you used them.
8) After eating, you see a few unwashed dishes in the sink. You now add yours😭
For who?
It's really not that difficult to wash your dish and go. Or, wash the others too as you wash yours.
9) You pull of your clothes and dump them on the chair.
Do you know if everyone behaves like you, in one week.. the house will look like a wastebasket?
Just use a hanger, hang your clothes. Or fold them neatly.
10) You pick the last bottle of water from the fridge. Please place another bottle there to get cold.
The person who put the one you took probably needed it to get cold.
11) You put on the slippons meant for walking around in the house, you take it to the bathroom, shower with it and wear it back wet, into the room.
I'm going to be really offended.
I get easily irritated by these things. And I think it's what parents should try to educate their kids on early enough.
Because at some point, you may visit people who take these things seriously.
And when they correct you, you may begin to wonder what the big deal is.
To some of us, it's a big deal.
What are your pet peeves? 🎤
@__Web3Nun@AlanS33D@Ayoelesho Leave am.. religious people wey be say na dem dey pray for promotion pass.
I even guessed he’s not religious because obviously the present position gives him some access to gain extra cash. Maybe legally or illegally..
@Taiyelo_lu@DrDanny2030 The previous guy made typographical errors.
To reiterate, Overthinking and trying to be smart will get you kiIIed earlier than your time just so you know .
@xxxtatashe@fortuneyongosi8 When you guide you’ll be busy, when you’re busy you can form nonchalance. And your busyness will be justified because there’s result to back it up. Which is you “GUIDE”
Shey you get now¿