I write about authority and discipline in marriage on my Substack and my website. I also offer counseling regarding marriage for singles and couples.
I have seen it help many marriages already, once both husband and wife come to embrace their roles.
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@SuzanneAugusta1 @stinaengineer Then you just change your standards. You believe in state violence, which is MUCH harsher than a spanking. You believe in discipline of children. You believe a boss can discipline his employees. You have invented an arbitrary standards, and it is not real. Spanking a wife is good
A woman should learn respectful speech towards her husband: speak in a gentle tone, avoid saying no, offer suggestions not demands, use honorific language like "sir," use her tongue to offer to help, ask permission for things, express remorse for wrongs, and learn silence too.
@SuzanneAugusta1 @TaraPorter36203 Normal for authorities to use discipline. Do parents have control issues? Governments? The boss at work? All authorities use discipline, and a husband should too.
Men need to hold their wives accountable for wrongdoing. The woman needs to take responsibility, express remorse for her wrong, and accept the punishment her husband gives her. She should be grateful for correction and learn her lesson.
@SuzanneAugusta1 @stinaengineer Discipline is loving, whether in this form or another. I am not the one who needs to "get over" anything, as you are the one who started commenting on my post.
@SuzanneAugusta1 There is nothing "twisted" about discipline, and on examination, you would find you believe in discipline in other domains, just not in this one. Your husband has a responsibility to correct you.
@SuzanneAugusta1 @stinaengineer If your husband does not correct you, he is a coward, and is irresponsible. It i his job.
Loving discipline is not violence in the sense you mean. Is the state violent when it arrests the offender?
@SuzanneAugusta1 Spanking is not for dogs, but for human beings who have misbehaved. If you misbehave, your husband is right to correct you, whether by that method or another.
@SuzanneAugusta1 You will learn and grow with time to understand its value. However, if your husband chooses to correct you another way, that is fine, so long as that way is effective.
@TimothyClark61@tsatt86 Marriage is for life, objectively speaking. Whether she got the memo or not doesn't change that. People are selfish and want to live for themselves.
@SuzanneAugusta1 Loving discipline includes a spanking, and spankings generally leave some kind of marks. That is part of what wives accept when they accept discipline. It is far superior to the alternatives, such as continued bad behavior.