To understand the peculiar power of the Coquette, you must first understand a critical property of love and desire:
The more obviously you pursue a person, the more likely you are to chase them away.
"To capture and hold attention, you need to show attributes that go against your physical appearance, creating depth and mystery.
If you have a sweet face and an innocent air, let out hints of something dark, even vaguely cruel in your character."
You should generally avoid people who are preoccupied with business or work-
Seduction demands attention, and busy people have too little space in their minds for you to occupy.
Never force the physical; instead infect your targets with heat, lure them into lust.
Morality, judgment, and concern for the future will all melt away.
Nothing is more infuriating than being paid no attention.
In the process of seduction, you may have to pull back at times, subjecting your target to moments of doubt.
But prolonged inattention will not only break the seductive spell, it can create hatred.
Suffocators fall in love with you before you are even half aware of their existence.
The trait is deceptive-you might think they have found you overwhelming
But the fact is they suffer from an inner void, a deep well of need that cannot be filled.
When people's vanity is at risk, you can make them do whatever you want.
According to Stendhal, if there is a woman you are interested in, pay attention to her sister. That will stir a triangular desire.