Be extremely private about your life. Stop oversharing.
Not everyone has the best interests for you. Not everyone is your friend. And not all family want the best for you.
living in Germany truly does feel like living in the year 1284 sometimes. its Good Friday so today all the shops are closed and dancing is illegal. tomorrow i must walk into town to purchase some milk and eggs to make my Easter bread, because the shops are once again all closed on Sunday (as they are every Sunday)
Personally, I think we should be okay with having a beautiful conversation with a stranger & leaving it at that. Exchanging contacts is not always necessary. I think one of the beautiful things in life is being able to remember a good conversation with a random person & move on.