You will never realize how alone you are until you have a bad day and you have no one to talk to about it, so you just be on your phone till you fall asleep.
Ask God to restore your appetite for life. Your ideas. Your energy. Your curiosity. Your confidence. Your hope for the future. Sometimes you don't need a completely new life. You need to reconnect with the parts of yourself you stopped nurturing.
@itskwasi Reason why I crave to be exposed enough, so I can show my kids how good it gets, how better it can be.
The ceiling in life is to the level of your exposure.
Men admire intelligent women until that intelligence becomes sharp enough to notice their inconsistencies, understand their patterns, and call out the bullshit they thought sheโd overlook.
Nigerian men will swear they prefer a particular kind of woman, but go ahead and frustrate that woman when they find her.
Cheat on virgin, cheat on Oyibo, cheat on independent woman that doesnโt bill them.
If you like, bend yourself like crayfish because you want to be picked. They will pick you, then frustrate your life with the women they swore they do not like.
"you handled that so well" no, i didn't. i went insane. i lost my spark. i suffered in silence. i didn't ask for help. i shattered alone and wore a smile that lied better than any mask could. i didn't handle it, i survived it because i had no other choice.