@lovyPrimzy1 I disagree. Their gen. aren't good models. Nothing much has changed about the male gender in regard to marriage over the years. We only had mothers who endured untold trauma &ended up with both physical and mental health conditions. We're not them&we should aspire for better.
@collinsogbuefi5 @Tmotty9 @oku_yungx Wife killer spotted and y'all thinking the best reaction is laughter really shows why the marriage scene is the way it is. All of you just stay unmarried. Hopefully, more women will have sense to avoid your type too. Nothing will happen if you don't marry, the world goes on.
@ChineduDonald4@tomisin_ms She could have as well used a flour sack for the concept, giving a chance for actual creativity. Art thrives around symbolism, not just presenting an object.
@sunky004 It's the welfare of the new mother that matters the most, not husband's family claiming right. Best for the wife's mom to come first when she's still tender and the husband's mom can come later.
@sunky004@Dr_FeelGood_001 I'm a woman and you can't use your own experience as a man to override this. So, I definitely know what I'm saying. Many women don't even open up to their husbands on this subject. Any understanding Yoruba man will take the important points from what I said.
@sunky004@Dr_FeelGood_001 Any Yoruba man who truly wants the well-being of his wife will let her mother come&care for her. Only very few husbands' moms will take good care of the new mother without causing more problems. Even with the good ones, the new mother can never be as free as with her own mum.
@sunky004@Dr_FeelGood_001 It was never imprinted in any Yoruba culture that it must be the man's mother. It's actually any adult female around that does olojojo. This in most settings ended up being the man's mother due to extended family living together in close proximity.
The danger isn’t just getting used to rubbish, it’s forgetting you once recognized it as rubbish at all.
When you stay in unhealthy environments or relationships long enough, your standards quietly shift downward.
What was once shocking becomes ordinary, and that’s how compromise erodes integrity.
There’s a quiet pain in discovering that the empathy you offered freely was interpreted as weakness by people who only understand transactions. When someone operates from selfishness, they often see kindness as something to use rather than something to protect. That realization can change the way you see people forever.
@BerryYNWA1 No need to argue such a thing cos they won't listen to reason. They should just carry aunty along and drop her in the groom's family house when they want to leave. If she doesn't have shame, let her stay there one week.
@cooker65691@Mrbankstips Lol, imagine comparing squid game to GOT. Just stay within what you like. If you think Squid Game is the bomb, I can see why you'll find GoT boring. It's a matter of taste & exposure, just like some people don't understand wry or dark humour.
@Bank_Managers@vybkwin According to her - yes, she has been released after paying 150k. Now they're trying to lure her back to the station after seeing the posts online.
@prosperlingua@maxta_milos@aproko_doctor I just meant they won't need a prescription to buy it. Any doctor that knows their onions won't diagnose or prescribe on social media. They asked where to buy it, and you didn't prescribe it.
@Fancyfoodmart@raheem_laz I'm a millennial and not a Nepo baby yet I never did it. In fact, the first time I witnessed it was in my 30s. We simply took our bowls from home to buy food at bukas. I find it really unpalatable watching people eat that way through the nylon.
@NWA_ADA_NNEWI This is a doctored chat! He hasn't changed his profile picture on Whatsapp for months and this wasn't the picture he was using. Let the person do a screen recording instead of chasing clout. People mentioned being wary of the bike under his posts truly but this chat is so fake!
@DarkBumpy Point taken, but it wasn't 6 weeks. He got the bike around October/Nov last year &started learning. He probably got the confidence to do interstate bcos he's been doing same with his car for years. He was bold&fearless 😔