Rejection should never destroy you. Sometimes it’s the cleanest reset life can give you a chance to move without performing, proving, or worrying about someone else’s judgment. Once you survive being unwanted, you become dangerous in a different way: you stop being afraid to choose yourself.
A man isn’t measured by how hard he can hit back. Sometimes maturity is having every reason, every advantage, and every ounce of power to destroy someone and still choosing peace. Real strength is knowing you could escalate it, but deciding your evening, your sanity, and your plate of jollof rice matter more than proving a point.
This morning, I woke up with a pain on the right side of my chest after remembering this girl that collected my transport fare twice, awhile back without showing up. Its 7 years now.
I am holding my chest as I write this. E no go better for her anywhere and we go jam one day. She would vomit everything, including the incremental adjustments that inflation and minimum wage must have added.
Just imagine, not once o, twice. Two good times! Why do bad things happen to good trusting men?
Your friends are hustling and plotting for their lives now.
But you,
You're the the life of town. The king and Queen of all flex. You know all the rich and happening people and you're juicing it. You know all the good spots in town and can give a sound judgement on experience, taste and ambience.
10 years from now,
They're happening.
You're sending them messages. They take time to respond. You're getting angry. You feel the air of their pomposity choking your nose.
You start reeling out the credentials of their poverty in childhood as you watched them grow.
You tell everyone you touched money and enjoyment before them.
You did all the dos before them but today, those proud idiots won't show you some respect.
Your wrinkled anger is glorious but life has moved on.
Those proud idiots are living life from the arrears of your years of jolliment. They do not need your rendition to grow. None of them is going to become broke because they didn't show you respect you refused to show yourself by getting better with the years.
I am still your favorite Rebel!
A responsible man that probably has a wife and children sent a girl 2k to come and meet him in a hotel in Jos on Friday.
She spent the night with him and they did the things that adults do when they go to hotels.
None of this is news.
What is news is that when she was having her bath, this guy took her phone and powerbank and ran away.
I am not VDM and I don’t like calling people out but today, we go expose this Jos big boy.
Buy data and stay tuned 👍🏼