a woman’s brain cannot relax until she feels physically & emotionally safe. many men don’t understand how much energy women expend checking whether they’re safe. providing an environment where she can turn off that part of her brain allows her to truly settle into her femininity.
discernment is real. you can hear stuff that’s not being said. you can feel things and don’t even have to be in close proximity. you can detect a lie from miles away. sometimes it feels like a blessing and a curse because that third eye is awake.
and suddenly i became the person who takes forever to reply, likes to be alone, will ghost you, doesn’t care about anything, and will not care if we fade away
i always claim to be independent, but deep inside it melts me when someone does something for me without being asked. it’s a reminder that being independent doesn’t mean being on your own all the time