people waste so much time forcing themselves to believe or trying to erase every negative thought when the only thing u need to do is saturate ur subconscious with ur new desired reality. u don’t need to believe, just affirm!!
How to change your identity:
1. Decide who you are now.
I’m loved. I’m chosen. I’m successful. I’m secure. Whatever it is. You can complete this sentence " i am someone who..."
2. Notice the old identity.
Catch the automatic thoughts like I’m not enough, they’ll leave, I always fail, money is hard.
3. Don't argue with it.
Just go, nope, that's not how I see myself anymore. And distract yourself with your life. Even if the thought is there,let it be even if its uncomfortable.
4. Choose the new assumption.
I’m valued. Things work out for me. I’m safe. I always figure things out. Etc
5. Repeat.
Not 24/7 ( unless you want to) Just keep returning to it whenever the old story comes up.
6. Act like her. Think like her
Make decisions from the version of you who already trusts herself. Ask yourself before reacting "What would i think like in this situation if i have that thing"
7. Stop checking if you've changed.
You don't need to constantly ask, "Am I in the new identity yet?" You'll know when you are,just keep going
8. Let it become normal.
Eventually you won't feel like you're "trying" to be her. You'll just naturally be her.
Identity is basically what you repeatedly assume about yourself based on what you think and react to until it becomes your normal.
Keep repeating your affirmation NO MATTER what the 3D shows you.
Shows nothing = REPEAT
Shows opposite = REPEAT
Movement = REPEAT
The 3D doesn’t get to decide your story. Stay consistent with the reality you’ve chosen until it becomes your normal. DONT FALL VICTIM
Let the old story die. I know that it may feel comfortable to you. It may seem the “easier”option to go back to. However, the only way that you will ever stop doubting yourself and get exactly what you want is if you let it die. If you keep choosing to think in your favor and think from the new story instead. Just like how your mind is familiar with the old story, it can easily become familiar with the new one. All you have to do is stay consistent. Pick the new story every single time. The more that you stick to thinking in your favor, the less doubts you will have. The easier thinking in your favor will be and eventually, the less triggered you will feel and the old story won’t even be a thought in your mind anymore. You won’t give af anymore.
there like "ugh my skin is so bad" no?? you wouldn't even think about it like a problem anymore. you'd just know it's clear because that's just what's true now
that's the whole shift. stop wishing from the outside, start knowing from the inside
and the trick is you gotta think FROM it, not OF it. huge difference. thinking of it means you're still outside looking in, still wishing. thinking from it means you're already there
say you're manifesting clear skin. if you actually had clear skin right now, would you be sitting
“i’ve been affirming for months.”
“why isn’t it here yet?”
“should i restart?”
these statements expose the same misunderstanding.
you’ve unknowingly turned affirming into a progress tracker.
instead of affirming because you’ve decided the truth already,
you’re affirming to see if something has changed.
and every time you asked,
“why isn’t it here yet?”
you stopped thinking from the version who had already decided.
you went back to thinking like the version still waiting for proof.
if you already had what you wanted, would you ever count how many months you’ve believed?
of course not.
only someone trying to get something keeps track of how long it’s taking.
hence the problem is that you’ve spent months checking how long it will take for it to “actually” happen.
when you start measuring time, you’ve quietly made time your authority instead of your own mind.
you start giving attention to thoughts that suggest it hasn’t manifested yet.
“it’s not here.”
“nothing’s changed.”
“maybe it’s not working.”
and as i always say>
attention is the food of thought.
give attention to a thought or a pattern, and you keep it alive long enough to manifest.
take your attention away and it has nothing to sustain it.
something else will naturally take its place, whatever you choose to focus on.
so every time you entertain the idea that it’s not here yet, you’re feeding the exact version of reality you don’t want.
nothing needs to restart.
the only thing worth restarting…
is noticing where your attention goes between affirmations.
“But how do I know that the law works?” By actually applying the knowledge that has been given to you. The only way that you will ever get what you want is by staying consistent. By not “giving up” just because you may see or hear something that you don’t like. Deny it. Reject it. If it’s not what you want then it doesn’t matter. It doesn’t exist.
Nothing in your reality can exist without your awareness of it. Stop asking people if the law is real when you are literally living and breathing proof that it is. Test it for yourself. Apply what people are telling you to do. Stop worrying about being perfect, only focus on being consistent. Make a decision (affirm) and stick to it (keep affirming) no matter what.
u don’t need to know whether it’s accepted or not 😭 once it’s accepted, the 3d will reflect it anyway. honestly “accepted” is just another word for saturated. whatever gets repeated the most gets accepted, and ur job isn’t to check for that, it’s to keep repeating
"i don't believe any of my affirmations and i feel like i am lying to myself"
my first question , is it the law of believe?
if for example you have never experienced "abundance" or "more than enough money" ofc you will not completely believe it the minute you start affirming because that 1 simple statement is contradicting everything you have ever thought and experienced , so if anything it may be uncomfortable or doubts may arise and you would question it.
but this where you need to remember that your assumptions ( it's called the law of assumption for a reason ) and what you are consistent with manifests not what you 100% believe or have unwavering believe in manifests !
so the whole believe what you say part is out of the conversation , so please don't bother yourself with this and just stay consistent in the story you want to experience aka your new story.
you don’t need to believe your affirmations, all you have to do is repeat repeat repeat I’ve manifested stuff that I NEVER truly believed was possible just by thinking it into existence
@SlaySlay52959@moonirre It's not supposed to feel forced. Idk where you got the idea that y'all need to affirm 24/7. The whole point of affirmations is to remind yourself of those desires.
i can confirm this, i’ve manifested countless things (“big” and “small”) without feeling it or believing it. you don’t need to do anything but decide it’s yours, literally. no matter how you feel or if you can believe it or not.
Even if it feels “fake,” keep going. Even if you feel “delusional,” keep affirming. You don’t need to believe. You just need consistency and mental discipline to keep going even if it feels or seems hard. Anything is possible as long as you put your mind to it.