The older I get, the more protective I become of my mental space. It takes too much work to heal, rebuild, refocus, and find peace again. That’s why I don’t romanticize second chances the way other people do. I’ve seen what the wrong person can cost.
I found out that I can no longer drink alcohol. Make sure y’all are taking care of yalls body! You only get 1…
Especially women that are in their 30’s and don’t have kids yet and want them. Please yall prioritize your health!
I can come to my daddy boooo’hooing & he will never ask what’s wrong.. he will wait until you want to share… but he will sit in silence with you. I used to think that was so insensitive until I became mature and realized sometimes you just need someone to sit in silence 🥹
"Do you want kids" actually I want to be so deeply and safely in love with a genuine, handsome, considerate, emotionally intelligent, healed provider of a man that the only feasible next option is to make him a father.
What a privilege it is to afford a gym, buy healthy food, pay bills, have legs that walk, eyes that see, a brain that functions, work every day, and take our bodies to their full potential.
And let me just say this… ladies when you’re educated, pretty, got motion AND no kids. You do NOT have to settle for struggling with someone. You have every right to be selective.
At 30, you start to realise you don’t just want a boyfriend, you want a partner you can build a life with. Less small talk, more real conversations about life, values, and the future.