people lack accountability, then be like “you could've just talked to me”. no, i couldn't. you don't listen. you deflect. you gaslight. you make me feel like i'm the problem for bringing it up. so no, i stayed silent to protect my peace, not because i didn't want to fix.
My therapist told me:
“When a person grows up feeling unseen, they learn to love by over-giving. They pour into everyone else, hoping that, one day, someone will finally pour back into them. So they become the care taker. The fixer. The one who shows up, even when no one shows up for them.”
And the hardest part? Deep down, they're not trying to be strong. They're just waiting for someone to do for them what they've spent their whole life doing for everyone else.
This beautiful video is not AI, it happened in Zimbabwe’s Victoria Falls, a place that remains a must-visit for all humanity, if finances permit.
Only in Zimbabwe can you have a front row seat in your hotel and watch nature come to you. This is what we mean when we say Zimbabwe is the best place to visit in Africa if you want to see and marvel at wildlife blending with flora and fauna, and at times passing by to say hello.
Victoria Falls is one of the few places on earth where the line between luxury and wilderness is beautifully blurred. You can sleep in a comfortable and secure bed, enjoy world class hospitality, and still wake up to the possibility that Africa, in all its raw and untamed glory, might wander past reception. It is not chaos at all, it is African authenticity.
If you want something real, something unforgettable, something that will leave you with stories no one else can tell, then this is exactly where you need to be, beautiful Zimbabwe.
Driving the same car for over 10 years is normal.
Using the same phone until it breaks and packs up is normal.
Taking food to work everyday is absolutely normal.
Repeating the same clothes and shoes is very normal.
Saying no to things you can’t afford is very normal.
Be normal.
hardest thing for me to grasp as an adult is you have to keep showing up no matter how you feel. you gotta do this shit sad, do it heartbroken, do it grieving, do it tired. life doesn’t care, it waits for nobody, you just have to keep going.
The Zulu parade debate just took another turn. Now they’re saying South Africans mustn’t mess with people from New Orleans because they do voodoo. South Africans are under the comments section saying “we sell lightning in South Africa, don’t tell us about voodoo”. I’m dead 🤣🤣🤣