people who jump to defensiveness during arguments have a fear of being misunderstood & a fear of things being their fault or them being wrong. conflict leaves them feeling as tho their character is being attacked and that brings up a lot of insecurity
@royale_lia_ @Ninthetrashbin @Call_Meh_Maria Mate I’ve been watching you for a while responding to posts from this user— maybe just give her time without nagging the hell out of her? Friendly advice to not come off as impatient :)