@wobbledawg By her own words, this is a community both of them have been in for years, but they don't do basic vetting on their event staff. Even if organizers aren't transphobic themselves, they're too complacent to be running queer events. (2/2)
@wobbledawg Some parts of the video are kinda gross so I get why a lot of people didn't make it to the part where she specifies the bouncers were supposed to let anyone with a ticket in. But that doesn't rectify things because why did they hire multiple transphobic bouncers? (1/2)
@sapphyreblayze Generalized passing advice for trans men and trans women is gonna naturally be more restrictive since it's usually aimed at early or pre-transition. You can and should find your balance. Customize the template or throw it away outright. It's a guidepost, not a gun to the head.
@larvfae@therapatical I vaguely remember that and they (idr pronouns) were a victim of both but considered dysphoria worse. They shouldn't have made a blanket statement based on their trauma just like OP here shouldn't be making blanket statements about trauma
@Toobithewolf@implantgrade But I will say that his post did bring out a lot of hardliners spewing out that if you don't take hrt, you're just not trans. I view hrt as the primary care for dysphoria but if pronouns, clothing etc is enough that's your life and deserves recognition as well
@Toobithewolf@implantgrade I did initially think of the more recent lion post as a miscommunication between the post saying gnc/enby and the art itself saying trans man and trans woman, but the artist is actively doubling down and relishing in hurting/angering trans women
@Toobithewolf@implantgrade Personally if I hurt a friend unintentionally, I would give my perspective, get their perspective and reevaluate from there.
But double-down and say their feelings are wrong because I didn't mean it is a solid, humble runner-up
@Mayday664080@xecoglet Anyone speak Japanese? I think the word Couple was mistranslated, i think theres a japanese word that means "couple of friends" that got translated as "Couple:going out with romantic intentions"