sometimes i wonder how many queer people would've turned out completely differently if they had spent their teenage years discovering themselves instead of defending themselves.
The perception that women’s breasts are “offensive” or overly sexualized, while men’s are not is overwhelmingly a cultural construct, not a universal biological absolute, and is heavily shaped by Christian and Abrahamic modesty norms.
the way everyone talks about vaginas be making me so sad. it’s so dehumanizing and violent and there’s so much shame attached to vaginal health. incredibly unfortunate
Today my therapist asked me “When was the last time someone in your family noticed you were hurting without you having to explain it, and genuinely showed up for you?” My answer was it’s never happened.
THE FUCKING HEAVINESS OF HOW LONELY IT IS TO REALIZE YOUR PARENTS KNOW YOU THE LEAST BECAUSE THEY’VE SPENT YOUR WHOLE LIFE TELLING YOU WHO YOU ARE - INSTEAD OF GETTING CURIOUS ABOUT WHO YOU ACTUALLY FUCKING ARE.
It’s ironic that the men who are anti-abortion, “protect the babies 🥺” today, are the same genre of men we learned about in history class who murdered girl babies just because they wanted a son.
It’s not about the babies. It has always been about femicide and controlling women.