When a guy is losing interest, he won’t tell you directly. He’ll still say he likes you. He’ll still make you believe that his feelings haven’t changed. But suddenly, he’s always busy, life is “a lot” right now, and he can’t give you the same time or attention he used to. And when you ask what’s wrong, he never really tells you. Instead, the distance slowly grows. The conversations get shorter. The effort disappears. You start noticing the little changes, but every time you question them, there’s another reason why he can’t be there the way he used to. Eventually, you’re left feeling confused, anxious and unwanted until you’re the one who finally walks away. And maybe that’s the part that hurts most. You were waiting for him to be honest, while he was quietly hoping you’d make the decision for him. You shouldn’t have to keep decoding someone’s behaviour just to figure out whether they still want you. If their feelings have changed, you deserve the honesty to know. Not the slow, painful process of being pushed away until you leave first.
I suck at dating because the second I realize you’re talking to other people, I lose interest 😭 Like I’m not competing for a position I didn’t apply for.
When you go to OR Tambo you realise that you’re actually the one without money. South Africans are landing from Zürich, Instanbul, Bora Bora, Paris carrying souvenirs, some from Safaris in across Africa yohhh!