There's a level of stress where sleep will hit you out of nowhere and keep you asleep for hours, no matter how strong you think you are. When it happens, don't fight it.
Your body is asking for rest, and it'll thank you afterward.
i think social media has made a lot of people underestimate how rare genuine connection actually is.
you can meet hundreds of people, but how often do you meet someone who genuinely understands you, challenges you, feels like peace, and makes you think, “i could build a life with this person”?
those kinds of connections don’t come around every day. treating them like they’re infinitely replaceable because another notification is waiting is how people lose something they may not find again.
Yes, you can have money, graduate with a first-class degree, and still be an olodo.
Example: Foundational Nupe Lawyer.
Yes, you can have money, hold political office, travel around the globe and still be an olodo.
Example: Reno Omokri.
Yes, you can have money, influence, creativity, and be successful in a certain area of life, yet still be an olodo.
Example: Seyi Law.
Yes, you can be a known musician, have multiple songs and albums that people sing and love passionately, and still be an olodo.
Example: Brymo.
Every industry has people who care deeply about what they put into the world and people who don’t care as much. Music included
Feels like the bigger conversation is what kind of thinking have we been rewarding all this time? 🤔
Let me give you married couples and serious partners a piece of advice. If you like ignore cos it is coming from someone who is single:
No matter what misunderstanding you have with your significant other, be mindful of reporting them to your family. In 9 out of 10 cases, family will support family and the way you paint your spouse/partner to your family will determine how much respect they will give them, in public or in private.
Remember that misunderstandings are temporary (especially if you both genuinely love eachother ans intend to stick together). Don’t give in to the heat of the moment and report them to your siblings/family out of anger.
Pause, breathe and process, knowing that it is all a moment that will pass but yhat impression you have created in the minds of your family who will always try to look out for you, might never change and reversing it sometimes might be difficult.
Remember this at all times if you love them. Fix things internally as best as you can. Misunderstandings are inevitable but temporary. Impressions are lasting.