There are people who wake up excited because today is the day they're going fishing.
or antiquing.
or looking for mushrooms.
or working on an old car.
or reorganizing their stamp collection.
I love that the world contains enough stuff for everybody to have their THING.
@TheArshiDiaries i agree many unfit women wear revealing clothes as a cope. But that's the way they still feel sexually attractive, and hence, confident. As for fit women, they feel confident because they do look amazing in revealing clothes.
@hackedeternity@sharanya92 that's also a generalisation. But if i entertain that hypothetical, don't you think eventually they would figure out something that works for both of them , rather than one of them immediately adjusting because they have to?
If you say “Repeal the 15th!” - This is racist and reportable by X.
If you say “Repeal the 19th!” - This is a-okay.
Because MISOGYNY is so normalized that everyone thinks it’s completely fine to openly hate and oppress women.
@Anushqq i agree you shouldn't expect especially an unreasonable amount. But do u take into consideration-most men would def. pay for the first date for a girl they actually like? unless u wanna politically correct, it's pretty obvious sign that a man doesn't like you
@hackedeternity@sharanya92 Saying the West is 'destroyed' just because its birth rates are low is not a generalisation to you? The entire inflow of immigrants is towards the Global North precisely because it's not destroyed.
@Sakshi50038 tbh, 1 year younger guys do the trick for me. They got that love for life in them, never jaded and somehow feel like they scored a Mommy without an uncomfortable age gap hehe.
@hackedeternity@sharanya92 as for elders not working, that's just laziness. Indian elders are some of themost inactive and unhealthy elder people- they should work more since they're no longer employed
@hackedeternity@sharanya92 it works out for my parents. Don't be lazy and don't hate your spouse. and in my home in Germany, a cleaner comes only once a week but never ran into problems with household chores because neither of us are lazy and both like to help, no matter whose job is harder :)
@hackedeternity@sharanya92 kids can always help out, it really becomes a very peaceful house when people aren't obsessed with roles but rather have the mindset, 'what needs to be done?', and ' how can I help?', and everyone can clean up their own dishes like many Western households do.
@ywomendeservles This is just online stuff, really. Never met a man/woman who says no to helping you out, even if they say no, somebody else will offer. As a matter of fact, people often go out of their way ask me if they can help me and so do I. Hard to believe a man says no to this :(
@32DreaMe@ywomendeservles i think this is just online stuff, never met a man/woman who says no to helping you out, even if they say no, somebody else will offer. Things are never that bad.
@growing_india1 but tbf, if you talk calmly to people, most people aren't motivated enough to yell at you either. Assuming your family isn't evil, this does work. My bf never speaks in anything less than a soft voice and it's because I never push him to fight me. Same for MILs