At 29 yrs old, I resigned from work & relocated to PE to be a full time student. At 29 yrs old, I took a chance on myself & at 33 I celebrate. This is for all the Black women in me who deserved a second chance 🎓 The journey continues...
If someone at work tries to micromanage you, micromanage them back.
Send them too much feedback, ask them a lot of questions, do follow ups when they go quiet or even when you know they are busy don’t let them rest.
Storms & heavy rains are devastating people lives in the Cape… the chap took platform to address us about not resigning & made zero mention of this weather crisis. Nothing about our people’s well-being in this difficult time!
For me this is the true measure of his leadership!
A simple note that there are those who are fighting flood waters that are drowning their homes, closure of schools and devastation of both private and public infrastructure. Including casualties. These people, as he spoke about not resigning as their president, most probably have no way of even hearing his message!
Terrible show of leadership!
I got into Harvard’s Master in Design Engineering because of an app I built to help people in townships and informal settlements design, build, and finance their own homes.
But I can’t afford to go.
So I decided to walk from Durban to Cape Town to raise the funds myself.
Along the way, I’ve had to spend money on proper hiking gear just to survive the journey. Today something incredible happened:@kway_za through. I even connected with the guy who designed my bag, and they’re now sponsoring some of my gear.
What’s wild is that my good friend @mbalimcdust encouraged me to write an article about my journey, and that article led to Cape Union Mart reaching out. A reminder that sharing your story can open unexpected doors.
I’m even willing to take a loan, but as an international student I can’t get one in the US, and I can’t access one here because I’m leaving to study overseas.
Like the youth of ’76, I’m done waiting. This walk is my small way of fighting to become the change I want to see in a crisis that’s deeply personal to me. Three decades into democracy, 2.5 million South Africans are still waiting for an RDP home. Some families have waited for decades. My aunt passed away still waiting.
Please support and share my journey.
GoFundMe:
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Journey Trailer:
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Try the AI housing platform here:
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No one wants to work anymore because the reward is gone. Half of us are living paycheck to paycheck, with no savings for retirement or a house. Two paychecks away from homelessness. This is not laziness, it is exhaustion.
South Africa went through 500 years of colonialism & apartheid & all the dark things that go with that. No therapy. Just “forgive & forget” because “you are a rainbow nation now”. Today, beneficiaries of those unjust systems say there’s “a white genocide” & “140 racist laws”.
We heard Nandi loud and clear. Her point was that Black men deserve grace because the system crushes them hardest: no money, no government support, 400 years of stacked odds, and constant pressure to succeed.
Our point is this: that same system hits Black women just as hard, often harder. Patriarchy. Single motherhood. Unpaid care work. Higher poverty rates. Sky high GBV risks but when women survive those exact conditions through informal hustles or sex work just to feed their families, they are shamed. Insulted. Called slurs. Told they have no dignity.
So men deserve grace for trying, but women are humiliated for trying to survive? You cannot demand grace from women while denying it to them in the same breath. That is selective empathy.
Grace is not a one way demand from women to men. It has to be mutual. Otherwise it is just another burden placed on the group that is already carrying the most.
The proposed Eastern Cape name changes have sparked wide debate ahead of gazetting. Here’s an op-ed I wrote in 2024 on why geographical name changes matter and what they represent beyond the map.
Rewriting the narrative of our past, present and future https://t.co/0pnxQiap93