1. It's Air Force, not Army, you illiterate.
2. You don't know this man beyond what he chooses to share online, you illiterate.
3. You didn't even think twice before turning someone's personal life decision into a think piece, you illiterate.
4. Jesus is King.
This is what a typical logical woman wants. If I support the home financially, I also want you to contribute to the house physically. Not that someone will say cooking and cleaning is for a particular gender yet you want the same gender to be support the house financially
I will weigh in on this conversation as someone who lived in the uk 🇬🇧 before moving to Canada 🇨🇦, I had male colleagues at work who will show up with freshly made food cooked by their wives yet they don’t know how to boil water, infact some of them work the same hours or even lesser hours than their wives, the problem I have with Nigerian 🇳🇬 men is not women not wanting to spilt it’s the fact that you want a working woman to still do unpaid labour for you without lifting a finger to help out in other department that’s exactly what this women are avoiding, as a man living abroad don’t marry a woman that will not help you financially because you’ll just kpai of bills via hypertension but at the same time don’t come abroad with men don’t enter kitchen mentality, there are days I come back from work and I’ll feel like fainting I go just chop bread sleep I don’t want to come back like that and someone expects me to cook Egusi because the same Nigerian men will date “oyibo” that eats take out everyday and be okay with it, but once it’s a Nigerian woman you want her to do 9 to 5, cook, clean, get pregnant give birth do school runs and still split 50/50 then if you see her she’ll be looking like a mad woman that’s unfair and I’m not mad at the single ladies who don’t want to do that it’s their choice leave them alone! Shalom!
I will weigh in on this conversation as someone who lived in the uk 🇬🇧 before moving to Canada 🇨🇦, I had male colleagues at work who will show up with freshly made food cooked by their wives yet they don’t know how to boil water, infact some of them work the same hours or even lesser hours than their wives, the problem I have with Nigerian 🇳🇬 men is not women not wanting to spilt it’s the fact that you want a working woman to still do unpaid labour for you without lifting a finger to help out in other department that’s exactly what this women are avoiding, as a man living abroad don’t marry a woman that will not help you financially because you’ll just kpai of bills via hypertension but at the same time don’t come abroad with men don’t enter kitchen mentality, there are days I come back from work and I’ll feel like fainting I go just chop bread sleep I don’t want to come back like that and someone expects me to cook Egusi because the same Nigerian men will date “oyibo” that eats take out everyday and be okay with it, but once it’s a Nigerian woman you want her to do 9 to 5, cook, clean, get pregnant give birth do school runs and still split 50/50 then if you see her she’ll be looking like a mad woman that’s unfair and I’m not mad at the single ladies who don’t want to do that it’s their choice leave them alone! Shalom!
Let me tell you people how Tinubu’s tenure will go. It’s so easy to predict.
1. In June, subsidy will be removed. This will trigger inflation never seen in Nigeria before. I see people refer to transportation costs (for humans), but it’s a lot more than that.
Hi Everyone, please I need your help.
I’ve battled Keloid since I was 2 as a result of the first ear piercing which was done at birth and was done wrongly.
My parents have gone through several options given to them and it keeps reoccurring.
I’ve done several surgical removal that I can’t even keep count both in general hospitals and private hospitals and they always finish up with kenalog as usual, I did cryotherapy for 2years with a popular Bumps clinic and the pain from the procedure almost paralyzed the left part of my body as it became weaker and I couldn’t use it, still it resurfaced.
Since 2015 I’ve been in and out of the hospital over this keloid, one general hospital suggested removing the whole ear which might cause another issue as it could still grow again.
I’ve been going through excruciating pains, every single day of my life I’m in pains, I’ve been popping painkillers like who’s taking candy, I barely sleep at night
Most days I’m awake till morning, once it’s night I get scared cos the pains becomes unbearable.
Sometimes I take sleeping pills just to get through the night.
I can’t go out, I can’t even show up for my business, my parents and siblings have had to give up their finances every single year because of me. Last year November, my sister single-handedly took care of the bills for the procedure I did.
At some point the Keloid started to accumulate abscess, it becomes so much that I’ve had to go through drainage process, I did one last year as well.
And all of these have made the keloid very aggressive and it grows faster by the day, the last removal procedure I did was in April of last year, the growth you’re seeing in frame 1 is just 1year and 7months growth which is unusually fast.
Since I finished my service year I’ve been at home because I couldn’t work with this condition, I even had to let go of a few job opportunities I was recommended for with the hope of getting this done before I fully commit.
A doctor I met recommended LASUTH earlier this year and since May I’ve been trying to get booked for surgery, initially I was booked for surgery but I wasn’t told everything it entailed, my first surgery date was September 11th and it was moved later on due to the strike.
I was opportuned to secure a consultation again with the Burns and Plastic unit (BPSU) yesterday in LASUTH and the consultant put me through everything I needed for the keloid to not reoccur.
He said I needed at least 2 Radiotherapy sessions of which one has to be done exactly 24hrs after the surgical removal and then another few weeks after.
After which I have to undergo chemotherapy and then post op care which includes injections, drugs,silicone creams, and any other recommended care.
The Radiotherapy is to be done in LUTH (I was given a reference letter for it) after making enquiries in LUTH, the estimate of one radiotherapy session was given at 2.5m, and I’ll be needing 2sessions which sums up to 5m. Then the surgery for the removal of the Keloid costs 1.2m and I’ve been able to come up with that. Then after the surgery I’m to undergo chemotherapy and post op care but I have not been told how much that would cost, so I am unsure of the entire cost of that but the estimation according to what I’ve researched is about 2m.
LASUTH have given me November 19th for my next and last consultation before the removal and this simply means I have to come up with the money for everything before then.
So in total what will be needed for the successful surgery and post op care is 8.2m of which I’ve already raised 1.2m and I’m left to source for 7m before the 19th of November.
This was really really hard for me to do as I have never done this before but this is my last resort as I have exhausted all my options and I have spent more than 6months alone trying to get booked with LASUTH.
Please help me get my life back together 🙏
Any amount will go a long way🙏
0427940035
Nancy Chidinma
Wema Bank