Sometimes you just have to tell people LOOK i love you & i'll probably always love you, but I'm no longer interested in the level of life you have to offer me & because of that I have to let you go. I'm not even asking you to change, you can keep doing exactly what you want to do & how you want to do it, you just can't do it with me anymore.
Vocal men are top tier. Imagine telling you how much they love you, point out your wrong doings in a nice tone, never invalidate your feelings, communicate with you when you hurt them, and telling how worthy you are and how much you mean to them.
Unfortunately yes, I lose interest when I feel ignored. Yes, I lose interest when you act detached, and yes,I lose interest when you don’t show interest back.
When a man likes you, he talks. When a man values you, he plans. When a man is serious about you, he acts and put efforts.
Words without proof rot.
Intention lives in behavior, not promises.
Women lose sexual interest when they're emotionally disappointed, and I’m not going to argue about that. A woman can love you deeply, stay loyal, support you through hard times, and still slowly disconnect the moment she feels unheard, unappreciated, or emotionally neglected. Most people think attraction disappears because of looks, time, or routine, but emotional disappointment is what quietly changes everything.
If hurting her feelings doesn’t hurt you, you’re not in love with her.
If her silence after a fight doesn’t make your stomach drop, you’re not in love with her.
If seeing her cry doesn’t make your chest feel tight, you’re not in love with her.
If her happiness doesn’t feel like your own, you’re not in love with her.
If her pain doesn’t shake you to your core, you’re not in love with her.
Love is more than just wanting her—it’s feeling her joy and her sorrow like they’re your own.
Don’t destroy a good woman because you don’t know how to love.