This girl said, “When I lost my spark nobody noticed, because I was still showing up for others. The only way I regained my spark was by isolating myself and limiting how I gave out my resources. People noticed that though.” And that’s really how it be
Most ppl don’t realise this, the body grieves routine before it grieves a person. So you aren’t crying over him. You’re crying over the version of yourself that was shaped by his patterns, attuned to his silences, fluent in the unspoken language of his inconsistencies.
The older you get the more you realize that everything REALLY is that deep.. the people you confide in, trust, date, become friends with, the opportunities you take. What you consume mentally, spiritually, & emotionally. It’s very deep & shouldn’t be taken lightly!
Someone said “Nothing gives you a clearer look into someone than how they misinterpret things, every misinterpretation is a confession” and it’s so true because how people misunderstand things can reveal a lot about their perspectives and feelings.
i heard someone say this and it blew my mind.
buy land in secret. build the house in secret. then do the house warming party with publicity. date in secret. propose in private. then marry in front of a crowd. let your haters only see your reality, never your vision, or you will have division. in a game of chess, you don't speak. you just act. the only time that you ever speak when playing chess is to say checkmate. life is like chess. don't broadcast your intentions. act quietly. keep achieving. your achievements are your checkmate.
I am the product of so much investment. My parents really went over and beyond to provide the best schools, the most enlightening experiences and a lot of other things they never had access to, but made sure I did. Forever grateful for their effort and in awe of their vision✨
crazy how stuff just fall in place when you literally tryna figure out how it's gone work for you. i love that about God, he gon make a way out of no way. he’s too good 🤍